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kvrage
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help??? (possible abuse)
Trauma Support / by kvrage
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 August 21st, 2015
...See more so I need help determining whether or not what i'm going through is considered abuse, and if i should talk to my mom specifically about this. well almost a year ago my mom got this boyfriend, a pretty nice guy at the time.he treated me like his own kid but better (he doesn't treat his children too kindly). he recently moved in with us and once he did he started changing, he started punching me hard enough to leave a bruise but nothing more, i would get mad at him and he would say "oh that didn't hur, i barely touched you" or "i'm just joking, i could hit you harder than that if i really wanted to". I have told him to stop whether it was a joke or not because it hurt but to no avail. That's most of the physical stuff, but he is very rude to me verbally as well. Stuff like calling me fat (when everyone including him knows im insecure about my weight, and i'm not really that overweight just about 10 lbs), he calls me ugly, stupid, and he says rude stuff about my sexuality. But again he says he's joking and continues to say things like that even though i've asked him to stop many times. I've been too nervous to address these problems to my mother just because she seems happy with this man, and it's been a while since i've seen her this happy. She's been through multiple break ups and divorces and I want her to be happy even if I'm not I honestly don't know if this is abuse and i don''t know what to do
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