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kindEyes9789
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Poem: Yearning for Authenticity - Betrayed by Lust's Embrace
Poetry / by kindEyes9789
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July 10th, 2023
...See more I find my voice when I'm at my lowest. Poetry of pain, agony, and decision. When caught up in a web of desires, Currently plagued by passion-inspired doubts. Although I worry that it was fueled by lust's reflection, We danced in the flames of a short connection. He left me with wounds I can't ignore As I yearned for companionship and something more. Was our relationship only an illusion, A false embrace, fueled by his lust and the pursuit of his desires? The awful reality that perhaps I was merely considered as a conquest, And unrefined tears my heart. A false embrace, fueled by his lust. My spirit weeps at this bitter awareness, But he carelessly consumed my affection. Oh, the torture of doubt, the searing dread, If friendship was only a show, a pervasive fiction. Was my value diminished to serve as a receptacle, For yearning when the need for company grew stale? I long for the comfort of a true friend, Yet it seems that my hopes have been dashed. His goals were hidden by the passion haze, My heart dissolved to dust, leaving me wounded. I'll find my way through this desolate pain, Reclaiming my value, and putting my strength on display. I want a true, sincere friendship, Because I'm more than just a sexual object.
Poem: Words as Relief - Finding Solace in Pre-Menstrual Waves
Poetry / by kindEyes9789
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July 3rd, 2023
...See more I delve into the world of conflicting emotions. Where sensitivity grows and I feel alive. Prior to my period, a sensitive period, Emotions rise when feelings become more intense. My head starts spinning, and I feel dizzy. A prompt for the changes I experience, As headaches join in with their constant drumbeat, Humps and pulses steadily, like a thrum. But I did discover something strange. When I discuss my problems, I feel a great sense of relief. The headache goes away. When I relax and allow my thoughts to flow. What, then, does my inner being carry heavily? What worries and secrets do I conceal? Speak them out loud and allow the words to flow. Bring my burdens to the light and share them. Because when I speak, magic happens. Like the breeze on my skin, The anguish fades away. By communicating my anxieties, I receive a calming balm, That connects my heart To the calming peace of the universe. What responsibilities weigh heavily on my mind? What concerns and phobias should I calm down? Speak, allowing my words to flow As I allow my emotions, To shine in comfort, Of your own company. Because I am aware of the ability, Of words to alter, heal, and make pains better, Therefore, pour out my soul, let the stress out, Allow my emotions to come forth like soft rain. May I find comfort in my own embrace? At these times of openness and grace, Guiding myself with self-compassion. While I ride the waves of sensitivity's tide. And when the emotional storms have subsided, And peace has at least descended. I'll keep in mind that I'm never alone And that strength can be shown through introspection.
Poem: Love's Journey
Poetry / by kindEyes9789
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July 2nd, 2023
...See more I've realized in the depths of my heart, That I occasionally allowed other people to hurt me. I extended my unconditional love with open arms. However, agony found a way to get through. I apologize to myself for my tears. For having placed too much trust in others, And for losing my composure. I wanted to spread my pure and radiant love. But some people took advantage. Making the night last forever. Listen, my love, with grace and strength, It's time to go on and find a new home. Forgive yourself because you weren't at fault. All you wanted was to love without fear. Now, stand tall and strong, my dear. The world still needs your love and your act. Learn from the past, but don't let it define you. The love you possess will always shine through. Share your love with those who are willing to receive it. And keep it close at hand. But keep in mind, my dear, That your love is not wasted, The right people will treasure it. And help you through your suffering. Iā€™m sorry for all the pain you have experienced. But it is now time for you to let your love be known. Embrace your value and let your emotions be free Because one day your love will find harmony.
Speak Your Heart: Effective Communication Tips
Relationship Stress / by kindEyes9789
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July 2nd, 2023
...See more Hey friends! šŸ’¬ Let's share our special ways of talking about our feelings and making our relationships better. Remember, everyone's unique, but feeling comfortable is super important! When I want to talk about my feelings, I start with this special template: "Lately, I feel..." and then I explain why. šŸŒŸ I also share what I think could help or how the other person could help, and I explain how it can make me feel happy. It has made my relationships healthier because we talk things through nicely. But sometimes, if the other person doesn't understand, I ask myself, "Is it okay if we don't agree?" If it's not a big deal, I let it go. If it's quite a big deal, then maybe the person is not the right person for me, and I should let them go. This helps me make space for more positive and healthy connections! šŸŒˆ Let's share our special communication tricks! šŸ—£ļø How do you talk about your feelings?
Let's Share Our Amazing Anxiety Coping Strategies.
Anxiety Support / by kindEyes9789
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June 28th, 2023
...See more Hey there, wonderful friends! šŸŒŸ Are you ready to talk about how we handle those tricky moments when we feel anxious? We all have our special ways to make ourselves feel better, and it's awesome to share them with each other! šŸ˜Š For me, I have a special book where I write down things that make me happy. It's like capturing joy in my life šŸ“” I also love doing yoga at home and following the yoga videos on YouTube. It's like feeling and loving all the sensations in my body. I also live in a tropical country, which means I can go swimming whenever I want. I also spend time doing shadow work, which means exploring my feelings and thoughts to understand myself better šŸ’« Now it's your turn! Share your anxiety-coping strategies with us. Remember, we're all unique and have our own special ways of handling anxiety. Let's support and learn from each other on this amazing adventure! šŸŒˆšŸ’Ŗ Stay brave and stay amazing, my friends! I'm sending you all lots of love and big hugs šŸŒŸ
Discovering Unique Books: Let's Share Our Favorites!
Reading & Writing / by kindEyes9789
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June 27th, 2023
...See more Hey there, bookworms! šŸ“šāœØ Do you know what's special about your favorite books? Each of us has our own unique journey to find them! It can take some time to discover the books that touch our hearts. I've explored different genres like fiction, non-fiction, mystic tales, dark magic, feminism, and now I'm fascinated by spirituality books! Currently, I'm diving into Eckhart Tolle's "The Power of Now." šŸŒŸ I would love to hear about YOUR favorite books and recommendations! Share the stories that captivated you and made you think. Let's start exciting book discussions and help each other find new literary adventures. Remember, everyone's favorites can be different, and that's what makes them special! So, what book has stolen your heart? Let's talk about it! Feel free to share them, and let's explore the magical world of books together! āœØšŸ“–šŸ’« Happy reading! šŸŒˆāœØ
Harmonizing Feelings: Embracing Mood Swings with Kindness
Women's Issues / by kindEyes9789
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June 16th, 2023
...See more Hey friends! šŸŒŸ Did you know that our feelings can sometimes be like magical waves? Let's talk about it! Sometimes, our feelings can go up and down like a roller coaster, especially when our bodies go through changes. Girls, have you noticed how your moods can change before your periods? Honestly, I'm having trouble managing it before my period sometimes. I'm currently trying to embrace it by drawing colorful pictures, writing stories, or even having a dance party with myself using Youtube to let it all out! I believe that it's okay to feel different emotions. Let's support each other and learn how to ride the wave of emotions with kindness and care! šŸ’– How about you? How do you usually handle your emotions before your period?
Do Expectations Bring Joy or Stress?
Mindfulness Center / by kindEyes9789
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June 9th, 2023
...See more Expectations can be a little tricky. They can be both good and not-so-good. It's nice to have hopes and dreams because they can motivate us and make us excited about the future. But sometimes, when we have too many expectations, we might feel disappointed if things don't turn out exactly as we imagined. So, it's important to find a balance. Let's keep dreaming and setting goals, but also remember to be flexible and open to surprises. That way, we can enjoy the journey and appreciate all the wonderful things that come our way, whether expected or not. Let's connect more!šŸ‘‹ How do you usually manage your expectations and stay mindful?
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