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I don't know what to do.
Trauma Support / by jooordan
Last post
 November 25th, 2016
...See more So yesterday I went over to a friend's house. (I'm a girl and he's a boy) (we can call him Andy). So Andy and I have been friends for a couple years and it got a little rocky over the summer but we got over it although we weren't as close as we used to be. The night before yesterday we talked on the phone till like 6 am which is a really long time and we talked about relationships and stuff. We had hung at his house before and we'd chill in his room and it was cool, totally platonic because we were just good friends and nothing more. Last night was different. I could just feel how different it was when I got to his house. When I got to his house it was around 1 pm and he told me to wait outside around the corner so I wouldn't have to talk to his parents and at first I was like okay what the hell but he explained that it'd just be easier since I wasn't supposed to be in his room. Anyways 15 minutes passed and his dad was still there so he just came out and said we could drive around. We ended up getting lunch and when we got back to his house his dad was gone. His grandmother and little brother was still there so it was cool. We got to his room and decided on watching Mama, the horror movie. So I laid on his bed and everything was cool but he laid next to me and got under the covers and told me to get under too. I didn't think much of it because we were such good FRIENDS that I was like okay. It was cold anyways. Ahhh I'm running out of character space.
I'm confused on what this was...
Trauma Support / by jooordan
Last post
 July 16th, 2015
...See more So a while back I had a boyfriend and we hadn't been going out for a long time and I'm not really sure if this was sexual assault of if this is just normal but here's how it went: So it was after school and he had just asked me to the Christmas Banquet and I was about to leave to go to the ortho so we hugged and then he went in for a kiss and I wasn't really ready and I thought it was just going to be a peck on the lips and it was until he shoved his tongue into my mouth and started making out with me and I didn't know what to do so I went to the ortho and I couldn't stop shaking. I avoided him for a while and eventually was confronted by him so I told him I didn't like it and he was like okay but then he tried to kiss me again but I said no. Afterwards he was always touching me and when we talked he would have me up against a wall and it made me very uncomfortable and when we would hug he would pull my body up against him and I didn't want this. After I eventually broke up with him he got really mad at me for moving on and getting another boyfriend. He wouldn't let me go. Maybe it was just a really clingy boyfriend and I know it's not super serious like rape but...I just need to know if I'm being paranoid or if it was something else.
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