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jonghyunnie
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this is a safe space, i am here.
Number of ratings14 Number of reviews11 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceAug 5, 2024 Last activein last week GenderFemale PathStep 46 People helped138 Chats349 Forum posts46 Forum upvotes52
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life’s not out to get you. 🫧

i miss myspace.


especially in moments when you're not feeling great, everything seems to pile up and feel much worse than it is. all the negative thoughts and past experiences resurface, but having a bad feeling or a bad day doesn't mean you have a bad life. this is the most important thing to remember on days like these. allow yourself to feel your negative emotions, don't suppress them. but that doesn't mean you have to analyze everything or link it all to your inner child; sometimes there are just bad days, and that's completely okay! life isn't about being happy all the time, because without the bad days, there would be no good ones. don’t pressure yourself or overthink things. on these days, give yourself extra love and listen to your body. do what brings you joy, read a book and snuggle up, watch your favorite series, or simply lie down in bed. take a break from your routine and relax. and if there are things you absolutely need to do, take them slow and in a relaxed rhythm. but always remember: nothing is permanent, not even the worst feelings.

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General Support / by jonghyunnie
Last post
September 10th
...See more hi everyone! i have noticed, and felt a lot of things going on right now. i would like to say, i love being a listener here, and as long as our chats are appropriate, i am here to listen to even the hardest of topics. as people we function much better with care and reassurance, and the process of healing is never linear, but it is always happening, even when we don’t realize it at times. i am here, and i care. if you just want to talk, or are looking for a long term listener to have in your chats if you’d like, please feel free to reach out, and when i am online, i am here for you.
metal music with a meaning
Music & Dance / by jonghyunnie
Last post
August 30th
...See more hi everyone! i'm a listener on here! please know if you ever want to, reach out and i am here. - i wanted to talk about a band that i think has an amazing sound and an amazing meaning. - the band is named Opal In Sky, and they have an amazing metal sound, and lyrics that help me keep going when it's hard. ' Breathe. The joy of everything is prosperous. All in sight of these lives that we've lived, from our innocence as a kid, to now, grown into the same. Flaws shape the things that make us all incredible. When you fall short just breathe. /     ' You'll feel better soon believe me, I swear, I promise this. Self love screams within the pain, It's there. Let it in. Scars beneath are ever changing. I know that it's hard; mend your self by breathing in. '  - Serene  ' Sightless blight swimming in my life it's far from graceful, senseless fight trying to take my mind I'm done being peaceful! Cast aside your concept of light, everything you're fighting for is waiting inside. I will cut this blight that is bleeding me dry, taking its life so it can't take mine. ' /      ' Everything was different, yet the same. Fell astray from the path but became what I needed to be. Everything was different yet the same. I was led in the dark, but I finally broke free. I've become the light, fell astray from the path but became what I needed to be. I've become the light. I was led in the dark but I finally broke free. '-  The Blight  ' I know it's hard, but I promise this, you'll wake up loving every second you exist. So listen please, and free your mind. Cause in time it will be justified. I can tell you first hand when you hold on to the past, it will only bring misery. Find yourself letting go a pain that never lasts. You'll always have the memories. Why hang on to the burdens that only weigh you down? You deserve to be happy again. Cause I can tell you first hand when you hold on to the past, you'll only find misery.' /    ' I know you're scared, but I can swear, you'll forget the times you've screamed out "Life's not fair", So listen please, it's time, to take back your life. ' - The Sacral 
4 years sober from alcohol.
Alcohol & Drug Addiction Support / by jonghyunnie
Last post
August 26th
...See more hi everyone! i posted this on the other community but also wanted to come here! i’m a listener on here and today is my fourth year sober from alcohol, and i’m happy to be here! and if you ever need someone to listen to you about addiction, please feel free to message me anytime. it really does get easier as time goes, but we all need support sometimes.
*possible tw* 4 years no alcohol
Addiction Support / by jonghyunnie
Last post
August 17th
...See more hi everyone! i’m a listener on here and today is my fourth year sober from alcohol, and i’m happy to be here! and if you ever need someone to listen to you about addiction, please feel free to message me anytime. it really does get easier as time goes, but we all need support sometimes.
tw: loss
Trauma Support / by jonghyunnie
Last post
August 8th
...See more hi! if anyone has the time to talk please message me. i lost an old friend and i’m struggling a bit. thankyou.
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