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jane2913
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i’m worried about my father
Family & Caregivers / by jane2913
Last post
 January 21st, 2022
...See more well i already posted about the bad relationship with my mother and the last few days it got a lot worse again especially today… she couldn’t find her trousers and accused every single one of us to have them. she was being so aggressive and screamed a lot… at that time i was eating something and i started shaking and couldn’t get one bite down ): but enough about me afterwards i talked to my father because i’m noticing how quiet exhausted and burned out he’s becoming again… and i just don’t know how to help him): my mother treats him like sh*t and manipulates him and he’s in so much pain but he doesn’t stand up for himself cause she’s “in a bad place mentally” yeah wel but that doesn’t give her the right to destroy everyone/thing… he’s so hopeless and i just wish my mother let out all her anger on me and stoped hurting the people i love i honestly have no idea what to do…
competitive SH urges
Self-Harm Recovery / by jane2913
Last post
 January 18th, 2022
...See more hi I’m Danni uhm so i’m reaching out because i found out that my mother started to self harm as well… it’s a really long story but we have a very bad relationship. i started to distance myself the last two months but now that i now how strongly she struggles i feel like i have to take care of her again.. i feel like i’m the mother yeah well but ever since i saw her SH my brain invalidates me so much i feel like i’m just doing this for attention and that i’m copying her (even tho j think i did it before she started) and that i’m just faking all this also it’s like my SH has to be worse than hers cause otherwise i feel weak? god this sounds stupid…
i can’t stop (tw)
Self-Harm Recovery / by jane2913
Last post
 January 30th, 2022
...See more heyyy soo first of tw since i’m gonna talk about SH . . . sooo there’s a lot going on in my life and i feel like i’m in this massive hole that i can’t get out of.. i have no energy to do anything and just lying in bed all day is overwhelming for me… interacting with my toxic family just gives me the rest and i can’t stop hurting myself… the longest i’ve gone without it was four days and it’s just like my brain doesn’t even really want to stop mit sounds crazy but i feel guilty if i don’t do it mom doing it when i’m overwhelmed and stressed, when i’m scared, sad, angry but also when i’m bored and i just don’t know how to stop this if a part of me seemingly doesn’t want to stop… i just don’t know what to do anymore and i’m scared that someone will find out i hope you’re all okay and take care of yourselves (:
My mother drives me crazy
Family & Caregivers / by jane2913
Last post
 January 10th, 2022
...See more Heyy y’all Uhm this is the first time I’m doing this so I’m sorry if I make any mistakes… my mother has been struggling with mental health problems for many years and never really got help and let all her pain out on the family (including me) 2021 was the worst year so far and a lot has happened between us…the problem is I’m at the point we’re I just can’t be around her anymore because I feel so unsafe and so small? Idk she always gets so extremely mad over the tiniest things and often gives me the silent treatment (the longest she ignored me was 2 weeks) my current problem is that she’s in that honeymoon phase and pretends like nothing ever happened and expects me to spend time with her and take care of her and she always touches me and hugs me even though she know that I am very uncomfortable with that… I just can’t pretend that everything is fine.. I can’t be around her but if I distance myself any further it’ll hurt her and she’ll get more upset and then she’ll get mad way more easily again and hurt us (emotionally) i just don’t know what to do (sorry I know this is very chaotic)
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