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intellectualCucumber8716
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PathStep 41 Compassion hearts35 Forum posts10 Forum upvotes17 Current upvotes17 Age GroupAdult Last activeJuly, 2023 Member sinceFebruary 14, 2021
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Finally took some action against my narcissistic father
Trauma Support / by intellectualCucumber8716
Last post
 January 5th, 2022
...See more I stopped speaking to my father in 2014, after the one family member - my dog - that kept me seeing him, died tragically while I was in the midst of orientation week at college. I stop all contact with him because of childhood physical, sexual, and emotional abuse yet somehow he doesn’t get the hint because 8 years later I find out my voicemail box is full and turns out it’s my dads number and he’s been leaving weekly voicemails where he’s crying/sobbing saying “Im sorry if I’ve done anything, I love you…” - It’s the IF that’s infuriating to me. I’m disgusted and feel my privacy has been invaded and I hate knowing he’s had this access to me all this time - that fucker is having legit conversations with himself for years and is going strong. I attempted contacting my mobile phone company to see if the voicemails could be blocked at the carrier level but after two failed attempts I finally see that this harrassment needs to be dealt with legally. So I found a template of a Cease and Desist letter online and sent him the photo of it in a txt message urging him to stop harrassing me or I will pursue legal action (no contact or restraining order). I’m hoping after this the behavior stops and I get the peace I deserve without having to use the legal system but I’m prepared to do whatever it takes - I hope this is worth it.
Ladies, how do you honestly work out on your period
Healthy Living / by intellectualCucumber8716
Last post
 October 9th, 2021
...See more Honestly, I’ve done a lot of research on cycle syncing and the nutrition required at different phases of the menstrual cycle. I’m still confused and always demotivated to move during my period, although the motivation is also bad in the week or so leading up to my period. I’ve also made the mistake of being rigid about the same workout over and over but then avoid it when it seems daunting or I’m feeling bad. What are some tips people have for getting motivated and moving past those excuses?
2.5 year crush on my married dance instructor…is this an unhealthy obsession?
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by intellectualCucumber8716
Last post
 October 27th, 2021
...See more Hello, Ive been in a long term nesting relationship with my primary partner who identifies and non-binary for almost 6 years and counting. We are always talking about pursuing polyamory, but havent really taken steps and then the pandemic hit so it’s been hard to put ourselves out there. About 2 years ago, I developed a crush on my female dance instructor who is in her late thirties and married. The crush and obsession has been ongoing for almost 3 years now, and is stronger than ever. My partner is supportive. I am having trouble finding the roots of this crush because I want the thoughts to go away but I also don’t. I feel genuinely in love with her. I think I am questioning my sexuality, and have really identified with being pansexual. Pursuing a relationship with a woman has been on my mind for as long as I can remember, all starting with an intense crush on my 7th grade English teacher. I guess I need help addressing why this is happening and to accept that a relationship with my dance instructor is unlikely, although I value the platonic aspects of the current dynamic between us: it makes me feel good in a dom/naughty sub way because I have my own unique dance style that she appears to respect but also challenges my technique.
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