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indigoHemlock7126
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Do I have a shot?
Relationship Stress / by indigoHemlock7126
Last post
 March 12th, 2017
...See more An old ex came back into my life about a month ago. He flirted a little. I called him out on it saying if he does that take me on a date (I don't want to be messed with) & he tells me that neither of us are ready at this time & that I'm like family to him. He ended up confiding in me & I did a bit too & he says I'm also one of his best friends. But I am still developing feelings, but I don't know if he is... I know he has a few issues & said he doesn't want a relationship until a year from now so he can work on himself & prove to himself he can be the better man. Hanging out never seems to be working out... He could be brushing me off so I get the message. But if that's the case why did he joke about me liking him in the beginning?? He'd use that to his advantage to annoy me & my response always was "in your dreams" lol. He may actually be busy... Or he may be creating space cuz he really isn't ready. will i actually have a chance with him?
Am I not likeable?
Relationship Stress / by indigoHemlock7126
Last post
 February 8th, 2017
...See more So I posted earlier already and again my old ex has proven he doesn't really like me, he just likes to flirt around. I've never had a lot of guys interested in me... Infact I can count on my hand the number of guys who I know have been interested... I know I used to give a death stare to guys cuz I didn't want to be fooled around with... I take relationships as a serious commitment. So what's wrong with me? Why is no one interested in me?
Am I just lonely??
Relationship Stress / by indigoHemlock7126
Last post
 February 7th, 2017
...See more Over a year ago my fiancee and I broke up. It hurt like heck cuz he was the first guy who ever really treated me decently. He was my best friend. He just wasn't husband material & he isn't ready to become one either so it turns out. Anyways, it's been awhile so I am doing immensely better. I'm even to the point of realizing he isn't going to make the changes I would need in a man, & he's proven that I'm not the only woman he could ever love. so I'm not looking to get back together with him anymore. However, now a previous ex is back in my life... And he didn't treat me so good the first time around. However he's made changes & says he isn't proud of what he was & wants to become a better person. I know I want to spend more time with him, cuz of course I'm interested.... But I don't know if I'm really interested in him or if I'm just trying to fill my void of loneliness... What do I do? Do I cut contact??
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