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hv2007
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PathStep 10 Compassion hearts39 Forum posts9 Forum upvotes20 Current upvotes20 Age GroupTeen Last activeMay, 2024 Member sinceFebruary 25, 2024
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Breakup
7 Cups Online Therapy / by hv2007
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April 24th
...See more I just brokeup with my bf its hard on me bcs its my first heartbreak for backstory it was because of many things main reason was i always ddint like the fact that he was friends with his ex even if it was 4 years ago and they are close friends we once had a argument about it and i asked him to choose between me and her but on this q of mine he called me dumb and stupid. He cldnt make a choice but later said me fast forward i was annoyed at him and i checked his texts and he sent a video of him playing cricket to her i had previously asked him to maintain boundaries i never said to not be friends but i did not understand the motive behind having to want to keep a close friends of any other girls or in general ur EX but he did the video he sent her and i asked him if he wld do it again and blah blah but he was justifying himself saying its a omce in 100 days and cld happen he told me i needed reassurance which is funny bcs he knew i needed it and i said “yes i do but u are not” and to that he gave his usual dry response okay he said i wasting his time by this whole conversation and i told him we shld breakup but i was trying to get answers out of him i even said if that stuff happened in future( him sending gids and pic of himself) i wouldnt feel happy and are u okay with that and he said “yea” this stuff just saddened me showing i wasnt cared of but now the hard part is he was a good person on the other side it was okly this one difference about me and him which was me not wanting him to be so close to his girl—-friends but yea i said lets breakup after this conversation and he said ”alright” he did not stop it bcs he said it was my decision and all that but yea i know better things will happen but it cld happen with him if he wanted to change that he said he wld but he didnt.
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