Please read my bio first before PMing me! 

Updates-

May 27th - On Break - will be back asap

Discussions-

About me-

Hey, I'm Nia and I'm 15. I am Christian. I struggle with Mental Health problems myself and I have been diagnosed with anxiety, depression and have prominent signs of PTSD and ADHD. My mum used to be and still is very mentally abusive. My mum has emotionally and physically abused me which has damaged our relationship to the point where we don't really have one. I'm trained in CPR resuscitation, Makaton (sign language used whilst talking), Seizure first aid and regular first aid.  

My sexuality is straight. I am vegetarian and believe in cruelty free products. 

I love football and I am a massive football fan, I support; Brighton and Hove Albion and Spurs. I enjoy playing Fortnite and FiFA! I love going out for bike rides with close family as a way of releasing stress. I also enjoy coloring/drawing/sensory toys and helps me cope with my anxiety. 

My pronouns are: She/Her/Hers (please refrain from calling me honey, dear, babe, ma'am, baby or miss) Please call me: Nia, Lion or Golden. Thank you! :) 

Listener twin -  @TabbyCat97 - Carmen's helped me so much, she's my best friend and always will be. I'm so proud of her for everything she's achieved on Cups and off Cups. 

Fun Facts about me!- 

- My favorite movies are High School Musical (Movie 1, 2 and 3!) and Greatest Showman. 

- I love coffee! 

- For a career, I want to be a Early Years Practioner or a Social Worker. 

- My favorite place to be is in a sensory room :) 

- Everyone says I have handwriting that a teacher would have and that it's really pretty <3

Please note I don’t have chats longer than 45 minutes. 

My Triggers-

Self-harm, Suicide, Dementia, Cancer, Sexual health, COVID-19, Diabetes, Relationships topic.  Saying “take care”. I’m happy to have a chat about any other topic not listed in my triggers.

Please dear members**, don't message me to have a casual conversation, as I'm here to focus on people who need emotional support rather than get to know people closely and make friendships. 

My Listening Style-

In the beginning I remain quiet, In order to understand what exactly is going on.
Then, I begin asking open ended questions, in order to understand the issue better and in case I feel like there are some parts that need to be filled.
The next thing I do is try to reflect back to what you've said and show an understanding attitude towards you.
At times, I also share my own issues to make you feel more comfortable in the chat and to show you relatable stories. 

What to do if you're not happy with the support/help you have received from me-
If you're not happy with the support you have received from me, let me know and I will try to resolve it.

My Roles- 

Verified Listener 

Room supporter for Depression Support

What my codes mean- 

Green- I'm active and can chat with you. 

Orange- I'm chatting to other members/listeners but I will try to answer your message(s). 

Red- I'm not active at the moment but I will reply within 48hrs. 

If you have any questions please contact me and I will reply within 48hrs. 

Quotes- 

Instead of saying "I'm damaged, I'm broken, say I'm healing, I'm rediscovering myself, I'm starting over". - Unknown 

"There is no health without mental health". - Unknown 

"It's exhausting to fight a war inside your head everyday" - Mickie Ann 

"Yes, I am in recovery. Because even today was hard, I'm still choosing to be here tomorrow". - Unknown   

"None of your scars make you less worthy or lovable". - Unknown

"Be proud of how hard you are trying". - Unknown 

"Healing is not linear". - Unknown

✨Tribute ✨
My journey on here is in Jay's honor. Rest in Peace, Jay 💗 Gone but never forgotten. 

Have an amazing day, proud of you <3