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faefaerie93
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PathStep 42 Compassion hearts68 Forum posts109 Forum upvotes106 Current upvotes106 Age GroupAdult Last activeJune, 2022 Member sinceNovember 26, 2015
Bio
I like a lot of things, two things I enjoy most are coffee and writing. To be completely honest, I have an unhealthy obsession with coffee and as for my writing goes, I use far too many real life experiences to shape my work. I've come to 7 cups because I've been in need of someone to talk to for a long time, someone who won't be offended by the things I've been feeling. I'm sure a lot of those who can relate will understand what I mean by that.
I've been dealing with a lot of things recently, things that aren't easy to talk about, things that make me feel worse than I did a year ago. And when it comes to explaining things, I am hopeless. I end up confusing myself and the person I'm speaking to.
My profile picture shares two of the things I love the most and I hope that it doesn't break any kind of rule the site might have.
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how I feel...really.
Anxiety Support / by faefaerie93
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July 20th, 2019
...See more Okay, so I've never been good with making friends. I have a handful of them, and admittedly, only one of them lives nearby. Some time soon, however, she's going to move away. Like, to another country. I've been trying to process this for a week, properly, since she gave me the news. Of course, I'm worried about my friend. It's called growing up and that's something I feel like I haven't done yet. In certain aspects, compared to my friend, I am the more 'adult' out of the two of us. But with this, she out-adults me? Anyway, it may an irrational decision and its probably going to make me sick, but I have decided that...maybe I'll move too. She's moving to be with her boyfriend. So why don't I move to be with a bunch of people I've known for five years? Okay, I know, that's a bit much. But, seriously, the thought of my one and only friend leaving me...it's kind of killing me.
being misunderstood
Anxiety Support / by faefaerie93
Last post
July 19th, 2019
...See more That feeling you get when someone completely misunderstands what you mean and they make a big thing out of it? That feeling you get when you try to explain it away, but they won't let it go? That gut wrenching, headache inducing, sick to my stomach feeling you get when you realize, you just have to say sorry for them misunderstanding you? In my head, it's easier to say sorry than to keep it going, because if it keeps going, you feel like you're just making yourself out worse than they originally thought. Sometimes, it feels like I'm the only one making mistakes, I'm the only one apologizing. I hate that, actually hate it. It upsets me, gets me worked up and, eventually, just exhausts me. Just needed to share. If anyone has any tips on how not to be confusing or better yet, not resort to being the one who has to say sorry... Comment below?
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