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enthusiasticShip4775
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A Lesson in Love, Trust, and Letting Go....The Illusion of Love: Used, Betrayed, and Left Wondering
7 Cups Online Therapy / by enthusiasticShip4775
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...See more 1/ I met a girl online in April through a penpal platform. Our connection grew when I helped her theur charity transfer funds for Palestinian relief because i had international bank account to send their funds using mt accounts. For months, I supported her selflessly and gradually got to know her better. 2/ She was dealing with trauma from a breakup. Her ex cheated and didn’t want to marry her. I became her emotional support, urging her to move on, but it was clear she was deeply hurt. 3/ Over time, she started hinting at liking me. She often mentioned her three life options: 1️⃣ Marry her ex. 2️⃣ Stay alone. 3️⃣ Marry me. I also started developing feelings for her but didn’t openly express them. 4/ When I started my company, she asked for a job. I hired her, even though she wasn’t serious about work. I never forced her because I cared for her. Despite her struggles, I was ready to accept her past and love her unconditionally. 5/ One day, she directly asked if I liked her. I admitted it, but things shifted. Though she used to talk about marriage and life options, she suddenly claimed she had no feelings for me. 6/ I was deeply hurt. I cried and tried to make her understand how much I cared. I even suggested giving us more time, but she stayed firm, saying she felt nothing for me. 7/ To make things worse, she quit the job when my company needed her most. I pleaded with her to stay, as it hurt our projects, but she didn’t care. It felt like she only used me when she needed help. 8/ It’s been a month now, and we haven’t spoken. I’m left wondering: Why did she hint at marriage if she had no feelings? Was I just a distraction from her ex? Why are some people so indifferent to those who genuinely care? 9/ I’ve learned a hard lesson about trusting intentions. Sometimes, people don’t value what you give them, and that’s not your fault. Life moves on, even if it takes time to heal.
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