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diligentDrum7773
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Scared for my partners parents to meet my own
Relationship Stress / by diligentDrum7773
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 18 hours ago
...See more I'm scared for my partners parents to meet my own. This is because her parents seem rather judgemental. For example: my partner had mentioned about my grandparents going on a couple of cruises in the past and they made the quick assumption that they must have got their money from somewhere other than working hard for it! Same with stories about my parents. They think that because we had been on a few small holidays as kids, that my parents must be loaded. Yet in reality the only difference is that both of my parents worked, where as her mother was a stay at home mum. Also, they forget that they lived with certain things I would call a luxury. It just depends on what you want in life. They make quick judgements on people's financial situation based on snippets of information. It stresses me to how my parents and hers would interact with eachother because I think my own parents would struggle to see that it's just how they are and would be offended/find it very rude. Especially as my dad can go on about things sometimes which makes it sound like he's bragging.  It worries me how the situation would go 
Far right family issues
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by diligentDrum7773
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 Sunday
...See more My partner's sister and her fiancé have recently shown support for a very far right figure. Some of the things they pointed out were extremely selfish. Not only that I don't know how she can do that to her own sister when the figure is anti gay. After hearing they support him, it's like there's no coming back from that. I now see them in a different light. Would anyone else feel the same in this situation? 
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