Hi there! I might be back from a few months of absence, with low capacity. I thought I wasn't getting messages anyway, but turns out that I just didn't get email notifications :-/ Going to check more frequently now.
I especially like to be there for people with issues surrounding gender and sexual minorities and alternative relationship styles. You can also talk to me if you'd like to get some difficult experiences off your chest without having to worry about making me uncomfortable. NB: I can't take on more members for long-term support with severe mental illness at this point, but if you have someone else for that in addition then we can discuss other things.
Some search terms: queer, LGBT, non-binary, non-monogamy, polyamory, relationship anarchy, BDSM, kinks

My style/principles as a listener:
- I really believe in Active Listening and will use as much as feels natural and appropriate to me
- Contrary to some of my reviews, I do not give advice. If you know more about what you should do after chatting with me, you've figured it out yourself!
- The only thing I might judge is intentionally harming others
- I will not ban or abandon you unless you continue with something that I asked you to stop because it's hurtful (never had to do this)
- I am here to support you and want to find out what works best for you, so any constructive feedback is very welcome

I take sex-related chats under the following conditions:
1. Mutual respect.
2. You talk about you, no personal questions about me.
3. If you're looking to get some kind of kick out of it, there are other sites for that.

Now if you've read and accepted all of this, you're welcome to send me a message, and I'll try and get back to you as soon as I can!