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creativeBanana1558
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1 month later. How to get over him and see him occasionally?
Relationship Stress / by creativeBanana1558
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 August 1st, 2021
...See more Hey how is everyone doing? I just want to write it off my shoulders…a month ago I made a post on here about sex with a coworker. I feel like the month has passed by so quickly but at the same time so slowly. Still getting used to us not talking. It’s been hard to focus at work, been thinking of all the explanations that I didn’t and maybe never will get. I am trying so hard to let it go and I thought that I felt a little bit better until I saw him at the office yesterday, after not seeing him for like a month or so. And it hit me so damn hard. Honestly, I just wanted to cry . How can I get over someone that I have to face once in a while? And at the same time I just long for answers and some kind of good conversation.. and I know I cannot force him. I just miss him and the bond we had and It just hurts that he acts like im not even there. The urge to talk to him is so big but at the same time I do not want to do it at work. Just wanted to write my thoughts down and have some relief..
Sex with coworker and being dumped after
Relationship Stress / by creativeBanana1558
Last post
 July 16th, 2021
...See more Hello there, i am new to this app and I really wish to share my story because I feel kinda lost in it. I am a 25 year old girl and my coworker is a 33 year old man. So we started talking around december last year and at first I thought nothing of him, only that he was nice to talk to. But as time moved on I began to grow feelings for this guy. I told him and he told me that it is complicated because we are coworkers and that I probably liked him more than he liked me. But he still continued to talk to me and in my opinion we grew really close. The conversations were funny and also a lot about sex and teasing.. eventually we met a few times after work and one time we had sex in his car… After that everything changed. He said that he felt bad for doing it, because he already had a feeling he would feel awkward afterwards and still let it happen. He was very distant suddenly. It hit me so damn hard. I felt hurt and was insecure by it, that I started to create “drama” as he calls it. So after a while of having arguments and stuff he said “ i wanted to date you but not anymore because now I know how dramatic you are” but he never made any attempt to really date me before.. But now we are at this point that the arguments were so heavy that he told me he didnt want anything to do with me anymore, no friends, nothing. So Yesterday I went to his house because I wanted to have a good talk with him and when I got home he texted me and said that: “I made it worse and that we can never make up. “ I feel so sad, mad, confused and everything you can possibly feel with negative emotions. I dont see him often at work luckily, but we will have a fun work event soon and we are a small group and i just dont know how and if I can face him.. what do I do?
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