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courteousLand8092
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My Boyfriend’s friend who is a girl
Relationship Stress / by courteousLand8092
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 February 22nd, 2022
...See more I’ve been dating my boyfriend right now for about 3 years and everything is going great so far. Even though it’s my first time being in a relationship, I really love him and feel like I’ve found the person who’s just right for me. But I do have some concerns about one of his friends who just happens to be a girl lol. I’ve only met her once and didn’t even get to know her that well to determine what kind of person she is. Because of this, I asked my boyfriend what their relationship is and he classifies her as not even a close friend and doesn’t even put her in the same category as his guy friends. But that makes sense since she’s not a guy, she is a girl; that just makes it different. Since we trust each other, we gave each other the passwords to our cellphones. We agreed that it’s fine since we both understood that we only have eyes for each other and have nothing suspicious to hide. Therefore, I decided to look through previous text messages with her and found that they ARE close friends. SO close that occasionally they text each they love each other and send love gifs to each other. One day when we were spending time together I could see that he was getting anxious because she didn’t respond to his text for a couple of days, so he tracked her phone location (there’s an option on iPhones that allows people to track others who also have an iPhone). Ever since then I’m always trying to confirm that he still loves me like he says and he hasn’t stopped or shown any signs of disinterest in me. This bring me to my question of Are the emotions that I’m feeling show that I’m being too clingy/protective? How do I share my worries without coming off as clingy or annoying?
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