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How/Where to read for free
Reading & Writing / by conscientiousPeach2999
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 January 22nd, 2023
...See more I’m opening up this question for all :) the only way I know is going to a library any other ways?
How to Know What’s Right for You When Choosing an SO
Relationship Stress / by conscientiousPeach2999
Last post
 October 25th, 2021
...See more Hello all. This is a topic I want to open for open discussion. I’ll start with a little of my personal experience and then state the questions. I grew up with a lot of guidance from my mom because I’m inherently a pretty naive person. With certain big decisions, I start thinking of all different possibilities and tend to be indecisive. I feel like when you’ve grown up with frequent guidance from parent(s), it’s hard to know what YOU are and what YOU value and what YOU want from an “I” perspective. In the past few years I’ve been wanting to have more independence in my life. Imagining how I’d like to be happy, assuming I was living completely on my own. I prefer to keep details of my love life to myself… But say you have a couple or multiple people in mind whom you like and they like you back. My question is, when you’re thinking about a serious relationship with someone, how do you determine who’s better for you in the long run? I’ve taken values quizzes before but they all seem unreliable because I feel like on different days or based on the day, my values change. There’s also the importance of my relationship with my family that concerns me too. When it comes to supposedly if I want to take a step(s)/ decisions that my family would not approve of/respect/like. Would you say it takes experience to know who’s better for you? Or is this something you should already know/sense inside about who’s better for you?
Words versus Actions
Relationship Stress / by conscientiousPeach2999
Last post
 October 4th, 2021
...See more I have a hypothetical question that I’d like to open up for thought: which do you think is more important (or the better way to understand someone) - what he/she says? Or what he/she does? And why do you think so?
I let out my thoughts/feelings
Journals & Diaries / by conscientiousPeach2999
Last post
 April 13th, 2022
...See more I want a man who doesn’t have fears or insecurities about being in a relationship. A man who cares about me. Because that’s what I give to others.
Vent your frustrations
Journals & Diaries / by conscientiousPeach2999
Last post
 May 26th, 2021
...See more Anything you want to let out that’s inside
Tennis!
Hobby Zone / by conscientiousPeach2999
Last post
 July 5th, 2022
...See more Anyone else? 😊
Bucket List
Hobby Zone / by conscientiousPeach2999
Last post
 May 19th, 2021
...See more What would you include in your bucket list? Traveling somewhere? Making/creating something? Watching/reading something? ... Share your thoughts 😊
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