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I don’t know why I get anxious
Anxiety Support / by confusedsunshine
Last post
 January 13th
...See more it’s always been like this even when I was young. I always get really anxious going back to “reality” after a long time off. Going back to school after the summer break. Now going back to work after a long vacation. I have no idea why and I don’t know how to change it.
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Snoring :(
Self-Esteem / by confusedsunshine
Last post
 Wednesday
...See more i have always known that I snore but I guess people around me just accepted it or not bothered by it. I don’t know how loud or quiet it is. First time spending the night with the guy I’m dating. Woke me up to let me know I’m snoring. I playfully mentioned that I can sleep on the couch since he is already having a hard time sleeping in a quiet place. Shocked he agreed. He did feel bad a few hours later and was very apologetic. But now, I’m very insecure and I can’t sleep next to him without feeling self conscious and embarrassed. We discussed it in the morning, with me spent some hours at night going over what to tell him and to prepare myself mentally and emotionally just in case he can’t accept it or don’t think he can handle it in the long run or if it’s a deal breaker for him. I told him it would be better to just end it if it’s something he knows he can’t handle because stringing me along when more feelings developed is just too cruel. All good news mentioned it’s not a deal breaker at all and he understood that it’s something I can’t really control. He’s supportive and willing to work it out with me. But now all I can think about is him leaving when realizing he can’t do it. Too self conscious. I don’t know.
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