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Number of ratings41 Number of reviews32 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceDec 11, 2017 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderMale PathStep 420 People helped179 Chats504 Group support chats17 Listener group chats1 Forum posts15 Forum upvotes17
Bio

Hi there, I'm Henry, a 37 year old dude from Singapore (a tiny dot in Asia). I've been fighting depression and I'm lucky to be receiving psychiatric help. I'm also a closeted gay man, and living in Asia makes orientation a tricky topic to approach.

My goal is to try to use my experience as an average depressed gay bloke to help others who are in similar situations.

I'll be happy to be here with you if you feel like you need help. I remember moments when I could really use a listening ear, or someone that I can share and discuss the littlest things with. 
I'm like you, and we can help each other. 
I'm ready to listen to you. Let's talk, it gets better :)


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2023 update: i am a lousy cheerleader, so if you are looking for validation, i'm not a good pick.

however, if you are looking for perspective, i'm excited to help you with that by exploring thought-provoking questions together. if you are uncomfortable with questions, please tell me early in the chat so we can adjust accordingly.


7cups' chat has been getting quite unreliable recently -- some messages don't get sent in order; others are entirely lost. if you are facing this issue in our chats, just leave a message and i'll try to get back to you.

Feedback & Reviews
Attentive and insightful, enjoyed our conversation alot.
absolutely amazing, I love his questions that really capture your perspective about your situation and help you straighten things out
Great listener
Omg he is so nice i am crying
He answers very fast and help me
He is great. Really easy to talk to and very friendly id recommend him. Definitely helped me a lot
Good listener and good in answers
He's an unbelievable active listener. Heard what I was saying and was clearly very interested in my very difficult to understand issue. The amount of questions that I received that prompted me to think deeply about these things is unparalleled to anyone I've come across and I could feel the gears turning in his head as he was trying to help me unravel this mystery of mine. Highly recommended.
exciting and unconventional
Very prompt in reply and an attentive listener. Thank you for taking out the time and asking me the needed questions. Wishing you all the best and may you help many more people 💖
Amazing and responsive chat
Very understanding and he is the second person I have ever came out to about who I really am
Incredibly thoughtful, compassionate, and helpful! I so deeply recommend chatting with them
very good listener, open minded and non judgemental. I felt safe sharing with.
caring nice listener. thanks so much!
Angel sent from heaven! Henry was sososo patient in waiting for me to reply, responded to all my worries, and made me feel so much more better. He's more than a great listener, he gives really great advice and evaluation on the subject matter. Can't count how many times I've said thank you, but thank you again! ♡
Nice and patient. Help me a lot.
He was amazing and made me feel comfortable
They a good listener
Chill & helpful & smart. Really grateful for this conversation - Henry was always very considerate, and clearly engaging with your situation instead of offering platitudes. Much appreciated.
Great listener
Very understanding and receptive. Makes you feel like you're in a safe space.
very good listener
very patient and professional listener...I highly recommend!
such a nice and smart listener
The listener was ACTUALLY caring about what I had to say, and he's a good listener, too.
listens well and very kind
Outstanding listener, doesn't judge
Awesome
A very kind, wise, warm-hearted, and genuine soul. :) A pleasure to chat with, even about difficult to discuss topics.
Very Compassionate Listener
very helpful
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