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candicorn87
3,473 M Seeking Light 2
PathStep 279 Compassion hearts66 Forum posts71 Forum upvotes79 Current upvotes79 Age GroupAdult Last activeAugust, 2021 Member sinceJuly 5, 2020
Bio
I enjoy reading and video games, especially playing WOW. I tend to put others before myself which hurts things in the end, because when it comes to my turn to open up, I can't. I am here to work on opening up and being able to share my feelings with no hesitation or regret.
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Personalized Paths
Newbie Hub / by candicorn87
Last post
 September 11th, 2020
...See more I am curious about the personalized paths. I am looking for help with grief as well as my relationship that I have been talking about on here. I am hoping that someone out there could provide more information on the personalized paths. I have questions like are they helpful enough for the cost, what is the process like, etc. Please help.. this is a big decision especially because it does cost money and with everything going on and work slowed down, money is tighter than usual. Thank you in advance
On the journey to become friends with ex
Relationship Stress / by candicorn87
Last post
 August 16th, 2020
...See more We broke up not long ago, I hurt him worse than I ever thought I could. We have talked every day because he is the only support in my circle of people I know that I have. He wants me to get better, learn to cope with my grief, and get back to being me. Not all our conversations are easy, but we do talk them out. Although, I want to get back together romantically, the most important thing besides bettering myself, is to earn his friendship and trust again.
3 years gone...ish?
Relationship Stress / by candicorn87
Last post
 July 13th, 2020
...See more Recently went through a breakup after 3 years together. What happened in short words, I betrayed his trust by having inappropriate conversations with another man. Those conversations didn't start overnight, but because I found someone that shared my experience of losing a grandparent. My ex thinks that everything that happens stems from me not seeking help after my grandpa passed to move forward with my grief. I agree with him. Good news, we talk every day. He is committed to stick through me finally getting help and learning how to process the grief while I continue to earn his trust back. He's the best, I will definetly admit. My biggest worry is if we go one day without talking, does that mean there is no chance.
Grief?
Newbie Hub / by candicorn87
Last post
 July 12th, 2020
...See more I have not been on 7cups for long, about a week, actually. I do feel that it has helped me tremendously, however, I am curious on possible grief support. I came to 7cups because of a broken relationship which him and I both believe the events that occured stemmed from my not processing grief after my grandfather's passing. My question is grief support a possiblity. Either way, I am throughly enjoying 7cups and I have felt like I have come pretty far in the short time I have been on here. Thank you
Trying to be better
Newbie Hub / by candicorn87
Last post
 September 17th, 2020
...See more Hey everyone, I'm Candi. I found 7 cups while doing research on support groups. I am wanting to connect with others to help through my grief and my problems opening up emotionally to others. I recently had a relationship of 3 years end because instead of opening up with my guy, I emotionally connected to someone else over the loss of my grandpa. The emotional connection turned into a flirtatious connection. Despite nothing physical ever happening, the communication alone destroyed my relationship. My ex has been incredibily supportive even though I have broken his heart. He has agreed to continuing an open communication line to insure that I will be okay and find the help that I need. He doesn't have to do that after what I have done. He is so strong and I appreciate him so much. I am on here to get myself better but also to repair the friendship that our relationship was built on and to be a better version of the woman he fell in love with. Thank you
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