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calmPlane6073
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PathStep 23 Compassion hearts46 Forum posts10 Forum upvotes6 Current upvotes6 Age GroupAdult Last activeAugust, 2018 Member sinceJuly 12, 2015
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I'm learning how to overcome lifes obstacles, build my faith, and eventually be a better me. I'm a mom, musician, songwriter, genealogist, "in-the-car" singer, entrepreneur, and crafter. I love astronomy, astrology, and anything inspirational.
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This abusive marriage needs to end...
Relationship Stress / by calmPlane6073
Last post
 July 29th, 2015
...See more Ive been with my verbally and emotionally abusive husband for 20 years. Married 15. I've been through a lot of hurt, pain, and sacrifice. We have two teens at home, 17 and 15. My mind is. I love him, but I don't respect him much because of how he treats us and just how he deals with things on a whole. I want to leave but have been scared of the unknown. Meantime, I've been reading on abusive relationships, divorce, building my faith and strength, etc. I just haven't gotten the strength or guts to end it and leave. He's co dependant. I am a bit too, but I'm trying to break out of it. I realize I must have convince myself that me and the kids will be OK if we left, we have people to support us, and he's gonna be OK too. I have rid ,myself of any blame I may place on myself for any bad things that may happen. I know I'm doing it for a good cause. 
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