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bubblingHero97
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Number of ratings86 Number of reviews16 Listens toTeens & Over 18 LanguagesEnglish, Chinese Listener sinceMar 25, 2017 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 438 People helped114 Chats286 Group support chats83 Listener group chats36 Forum posts78 Forum upvotes79
Bio

Hello everyone! My name is BubblingHero97 but that’s just my username, my friends call me Victoria :)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

❄︎A little information about me❄︎

 

 

 

 

I am turning 18 soon and am currently in my second last year of High School and I usually spend most of time here as a listener. My hobbies include watching tvshows, movies but as well as listening to music. Music is where I get my strength, I listen to all types of music from classical music to kpop <3

 

 

 

 

I like to help people who are going though a hard time and support them and take them through, watch them grow emotionally through time. I'd be glad to talk to you about any topic that my is within my expertises.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

❄︎My areas of expertise/strengths include❄︎

 

 

 

 

Breakups

 

 

 

 

Relationship

 

 

 

 

Stress

 

 

 

 

❄︎Extra chats I also take are❄︎

 

 

 

 

Anxiety

 

 

 

 

Family Stress

 

 

 

 

Forgiveness

 

 

 

 

Getting Unstuck

 

 

 

 

Grief

 

 

 

 

Social Anxiety

 

 

 

 

However, there are chats where I try to avoid which may be triggering for me, and those chats are mostly: Depression and Self-harm

 

 

 

 

❄︎My involvments❄︎ 

 

 

 

 

Student Support Team

 

 

 

 

Relationship Support Team

 

 

 

 

Intern Buddy

 

 

 

 

Peer Support

 

 

 

 

 

Want to be part of a Support Team?

 

 

Want to become an Adult-Teen Listener?

 

 

 

 

Interested in becoming a mentor or learning more about them?

 

 

 

 

Want to learn more about the Verified Listener team or join the team?

 

 

 

 

 

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Recent forum posts
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You disappointed me
Relationship Stress / by bubblingHero97
Last post
 May 25th, 2017
...See more Dear you, We were an amazing couple, you were an amazing boyfriend. You stayed loyal to me and you were the first that made me understand what love is. However, the distance killed you. It killed us. I don't blame it on you or me. I blame it on the distance. I am almost there, I am almost over you. You talk about your girlfriends, which I don't mind, but what disappoint me is, you told me you were cheating on her, then broke up with her, got with a new girl, then cheated again. Where is the old you? The you where all girls like, the you where you were committed and loyal and funny? I tried talking sense into you, but you don't care. You don't care me or your friends or anyone's opinion because "it's your life, so I should butt out of it" I am utterly disappointed in you, I love you as a friend, but, I am sure very disappointed and I hope you know that.
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I think I am emotionally dead?
Relationship Stress / by bubblingHero97
Last post
 May 11th, 2017
...See more Hi, so a few weeks ago, I have gotten out of a relationship due to the distance and some complications (we are toxic towards each other), we both didn't want to, but it was necessary, we were each other's first love. However, after the break up, I have not cried at all, I feel like as if I don't exactly know what to feel. I don't feel especially sad, but I don't feel especially happy as well. I enjoy my time with friends, but then frome time to time, I just think about him. It doesn't hurt me or anything, it's more of a "I miss you and everything we used to do". I don't know if I'm happy or not each day. Like I think of him at least once a day and idk if I'm like so hurt that I'm emotionally dead or smt. I'm like lost emotionally. I don't know what pure happiness is like anymore. I feel like as if im always gonna love him, even if i have moved on, which i know i will one day, i will still love him as a friend, as a very important friend. I just don't know what caused this, did all the relationship I had caused this? I just feel lost and I don't know what to feel every day. Do you guys ever had this feeling?
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Welcome to the new members (:
Relationship Stress / by bubblingHero97
Last post
 May 6th, 2017
...See more Hello, I'm Victoria and I've been here for about a year now. Ife been in a long distance relationship and as well as short term and long term relationship. So if there are any problems, you are welcome to talk to me (: i wish you the bestest luck
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What are your guy's opinion on this?
Relationship Stress / by bubblingHero97
Last post
 August 16th, 2018
...See more So I met this guy on the internet 8 months ago, we connected right away and dated after a week. He's in Ireland while I'm in Taiwan. 7/8 hour time difference. We dated for 7 months, of course there were ups and downs, but we managed to get through that. We both are very open with each other, sending pictures and vidoes to each other etc. However a month ago, he wanted to just be friends because he isnt happy in the relationship, but he still loves me and wants to be with me, and all those times that he was with me is just because of the reason "he loves me" and does not want to hurt me. He wanted to be friends with me now, but at the same time he cant let me go and I cant let him go, we are each other's first real love that we've actually felt, so we both decided to still have contact with each other. However we did make up these "rules" that we have to follow. 1. No sexual acitivies with other people 2. If we're seeing anyone or anything happened, we have to tell each other 3. We have to at least talk to each other 3 times a week. We both agreed on these terms and have been following them perfectly so far, we however did mention to each other that we both are pretty impossible to just find someone else when we are both still clearly in love. It's been a month now since the break up, we talk almost every single day, we sometimes even skype for hours. He does as well indirectly tells me he loves me etc for example he says "I love coleslaw more than you.. im kidding" or he calls my mom "mother in law" or when i say "i love you" to my sister, he says "i love you too" but to me since he knew I was wearing headphones. I told all my close friends about this, some understand, some think he just doesn't want the responsibility. What do you people think?
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Thank you for controlling me
Relationship Stress / by bubblingHero97
Last post
 April 23rd, 2017
...See more Dear ______ We dated for almost two years, and I have loved some parts of it, however you did change me lot. After going through the old diaries I wrote about you, I have noticed the signs why everyone has told me I deserve so much better. In the diaries, you controlled me, telling me when I should go to bed, telling you my test scores, making me read books I dont want to read, going out with people I dont want to hang out and destroying my friendship, but I was blinded by my love for you. But what haunted me forever is the fact the you pressured me into something I didnt want to do, at that point, I should've left you already, but I we were both 14, I was naive, I didnt want to leave you and be alone because I was used to you, so I stayed for another year until you got bored of me. However, after even broken off, I have given a chance with our friendship, but you runied right after I have given you that chance. You went around telling people what we have done in the relationship, the inappropriate ones, you went around calling me an alcoholic and slut. That is when I have started hating on you. Thank you for everything that I have learned in the 2 years, and I know these things that I have learned and experienced can help me find a better and suitable relationship for me. We arent friends, and we dont talk, but I see you all the time at school, and I'm glad that I have broken off the relationship rather than keep it until now. I've seen what you have become, and I sure don't like what I see. I don't regret being with you because I have learned about myself throughout the relationship. Therefore, to end this letter, I don't want to say I hate you, instead, I would like to say Thank you. Thank you for letting me understand that there are better people out there and that I deserve so much better. Thank you.
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Thank you for being a kind person, it means a lot to me that you took time out of your life to do this. It makes me feel so much better knowing that you cared enough to make time for me. So thank you
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