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bubblewheel3543
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Should I tell her
Relationship Stress / by bubblewheel3543
Last post
 December 28th, 2024
...See more My girlfriend and I broke up in August. We didn’t talk for a couple months. I really missed her and I reached out and we started talking again in October. We didn’t get back together officially, but we were exclusive and basically together.  A couple weeks ago we had a big argument. She wouldn’t speak to me since then. I wrote out this big message, pouring my feelings out. I was going to send it late last night on Christmas.  She ended up sending me one first. She said a lot of things and ended it with basically this is the end and not to be too hard on myself we had a good run. There’s a lot more but I won’t go too deep into it. She seems like she’s in a really good place mentally and she seems happy. I still love her to death. I don’t want it to end and I don’t want to lose her. I think she is the most amazing person in the world. And I was planning on telling her this, among many other things. Now I’m not sure I should. She seems like she is taking it really well and ready to move on. I am not. Do I have the right to tell her this? Or should I let her be, since she seems happy. I don’t want to make her feel ***, but I don’t want to have any regret. I really have no idea what to do. 
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How to deal with a breakup
Relationship Stress / by bubblewheel3543
Last post
 May 9th, 2024
...See more How do y’all deal with breakups? My girlfriend and I have been going through some tough times the last month. Recently she decided it was best to end things. I desperately don’t want it. But I recognize it’s not my choice. I’m not handling it well at all. I really thought I would spend my life with her. I’m spending 95% of my time at work or in bed. I can’t stop crying. I feel completely dead inside. 
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Trust issues
Relationship Stress / by bubblewheel3543
Last post
 April 29th, 2024
...See more My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 5 months. She broke up with me for a few days when we were about a month into the relationship, and I went to a porn cam site and used the site for a private show. We got back together, I didn’t tell her, and she found out a month ago. Since then, she hasn’t trusted me. Every argument ends up going back to that. She always tells me I’m lying about everything and stuff. I don’t blame her for the way she feels. The problem is I’ve been completely open and honest with every other aspect of my life. I don’t know how to move forward. I love her to death. 5 months is not a long time but we’ve been through a lot together. I really don’t want things to end. I just feel completely lost with how to handle this. Any advice is welcome. 
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