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Going through cycles of separation
Relationship Stress / by braveLemon2472
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 September 24th, 2021
...See more Hello, everyone! I’m new here and just looking for someone to talk to and vent a little. I don’t have too many people in my life that I can do that with. Anyway, my husband of 23 years decided about 4 months ago that we should separate. Really work on ourselves. Said he didn’t really want a divorce. So he moved out of his childhood home that we are buying and my daughter and I would stay. It’s been a very trying 4 months. At first he tried to stop all contact. That didn’t work. We always seemed to gravitate back to each other. Since he works over the road he travels a lot and isn’t around. So we started talking again. Then when he’d come back to town he’d stay here a few days before going back on the road. We’ve been through a few cycles of this. I don’t really understand it. Now we’re in a place where we are basically back to the beginning of our relationship. It seems to work, for the most part. However, I am trying really hard not to be the jealous person I was before all this. I am 100% sure that there isn’t another woman that he’s seeing. He wouldn’t have time…lol…but I know that he leaves comments for other women on social media (more specifically tik tok) and it makes me uncomfortable. But at the moment I feel like I can’t really say anything. Even if I did it’s not something he doesn’t already know.
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