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I am back :)
General Support / by blissfulSky8162
Last post
 October 29th, 2023
...See more Hey there :))  I don't know whether you remember me haha. I took a break for a month and I'm right back to where i ended. I've had to deal with a lot of problems which does not have adequate solutions but i do not want to quit.  I had a final meet with a board of psychiatrists who came to diagnose my condition which only made it worse because they literally had no clue about what i was going through. They were dissapointed when they could not find a proper diagnosis as they said 'your case presentation is different. I've not seen anyone like this' They finally ended the session reminding me that my future is unstable but it is in my hands.  I don't blame anyone but myself for not asking for help. If i did ask for help, i probably would have been spared from all of this.  Lesson learnt- Please do not hesitate to ask for help because it'll only do more help than harm. Talk to the people around you and i mean share everything and release your emotions out. We're here for you to help you out. 
Self Care Deactivation
General Support / by blissfulSky8162
Last post
 September 28th, 2023
...See more Hey everyone. So, I've decided to take a break for a while. I reached a stage where i just can't take anything anymore. I really hope i get back up to help all of you soon. A lot had happened this past month. I made choices i regret and i need to get back up soon because i just can't live like this forever. I've found out that i pretend really well. I've reached a point where my sadness is well covered by my smile and i just cannot talk about anything anymore. A point where i hide everything so very well that even I'm confused as to whether i am fine or not. I dont know to cry or smile, i dont know how to express my feelings anymore. I dont know anything. I really hope all of you here do not take this example. Please do not hide your feelings. Please do not act like you're all fine when you're not because the world needs to know whether you're doing well. You need to know whether you're fine. Do not bury all your feelings and emotions inside and call yourself happy and healthy. Ask help when you need it. Cry when you want to. Smile when you need to. Hoping to see yall soon and in a better position ❤️ Prayers and hugs xoxo
Acceptance from others.
General Support / by blissfulSky8162
Last post
 September 22nd, 2023
...See more I've realized something lately. My life depends on other people's acceptance and feelings. I've never once lived for myself nor have I done anything for myself. My friend never talks to me unless she needs something. She thinks I avoid her if i don't talk to her for a day. She never made an effort to be a friend of mine. It's always me. It hit me when I realized ilI had to keep sending her something or else I'd lose her and when she went to visit a dear friend of hers miles away but does not come to visit me when I'm just a floor above her. It feels weird when you realize that you've just been wanting other people's approval to feel like you are a part of earth. Why though? Why do you feel that way? Why can't you feel yourself? Why can't you do what you like? Why do you feel bad when someone does not give you the response you expect? 1. One reason is being belittled always or being compared to others as a kid. When you get compared to others', you just feel like you're doing something wrong. You feel like you're wrong and the other person is doing right. You just cannot accept the fact that whatever you did is okay. 2. Low self confidence- When you think you're bad at something and you aren't doing it right and you're not worth it, you'll definitely look for others acceptance. It's sad when you get hit by low self confidence because each one of us are unique. We all have our pros and cons. I'm an extremely bad dancer. A very bad orator and a very shy person. But at the same time, I'm a good artist, a sportsperson and a good listener. We all have our differences, it does not make us worthy of unpleasant comments. 3. Bullying- It's the same as getting belittled where you just want acceptance from others to feel like you're you. I just want every one to know that you're perfect the way you are. That does not mean you can act rude or hurt someone and blame it on your uniqueness. A little bit competition is totally alright but completely forgetting yourself and acting like someone else does not make you, yourself. You're clearly you. You're born unique. Different. Just like the rest of us. Never fall for others criticisms or opinions because you're not a toy to get thrown around and get used by. You're YOU.
Listeners are humans with stories.
General Support / by blissfulSky8162
Last post
 September 2nd, 2023
...See more I love listening. I've been blessed with the talent of helping people out with their problems, but is it worth It? I've noticed that some people feel like listeners are people with no problems whatsoever or those people who have successfully gotten through all the problems. Is that the actual truth? Most of us put a real happy face when we're around people don't we? I personally do. I'm a totally different person outside my room and inside my room. I'm a different person when I'm a listener and when I come here as a member. But why? We want you to feel safe and heard. The biggest problem I was told by my therapist was that I never share and I keep it 'all inside'. When you get told that all your problems are nothing compared to others, when you get told that your thoughts are invalid, when you are made fun of for feeling an emotion or anything different, you just end up hiding everything. I've come here as a listener. It does not mean that I have no problems at all. At the other side of the screen, I might be suffering, crying for help, hating. But it does not mean that I will give up on anyone that comes to me for help. We get judged for being listeners as some consider us to be problem solvers. We are not. We are listeners, we lend you our ears because we don't want you to feel alone like we did. We have our own problems. Our own mysteries. Our own life to take care of. We are humans. Just like you are ❤️
What was the smallest decision you took that changed your life?
General Support / by blissfulSky8162
Last post
 August 22nd, 2023
...See more What was the smallest decision taken by you that changed your life completely? To me, it was the decision of going to the psychiatrist for the first time. I thought it'd be better if I probably asked them what was wrong with me, just to get a diagnosis. What happened later on changed me completely. That's the reason why I'm on this platform today. That's the reason I'm here as I am. The reason to the worst period of my life. The reason to the opening of new gates of life I never knew existed. The reason to everything. Honestly, if I had the chance to change back the tiniest of the decisions, I would have changed it back then. I would have changed my decision to no, let's not go. But that's me. What would you do if you had the chance to change the very same decision you took?
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