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How long should I wait
Relationship Stress / by bighawat
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 June 15th, 2022
...See more My ex gf broke up with me 2 months ago after a 4 years relationship I contacted her to try to sort out things she accepted to give me a one month break so she make sure she is taking the right decision ... I contacted her twice during that break and she didnt like that after 2 weeks she sent me message that her decision is final and she wants to leave me ... 2-4 days later she started dating another guy and I received a screenshot from a chat between them where they say I love you to each other !!!? I couldnt believe she could love someone else in only 2 weeks (cause I am sure they werent talking before she broke up with me) Anw I searched about this thing online and find out that she's probably in a rebound relationship and I still have a big chance of winning her back ... After 1 month and half from our breakup I contacted her she replied normal and fast but just casual messages ... She posted a new picture few days ago and in the background a photo of me and her that I gifted her is still next to her bed So now 2 months have passed she's still dating that other guy and I still have strong feelings for her and I am ready to give her another chance... But I am waiting for them to breakup first to try to contact her again ... How much should I wait ? Is it over ? I am kinda lost and not sure what I should do
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