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Cheating (Me)
Relationship Stress / by azureRaspberries538
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...See more Me and my wife have been together for just over 3 years now. When we had first gotten together, everything was great and we had very little issues outside of your atypical disagreements. However over this past year, we've began having relationship issues that have sprung up due to my actions. Me and my wife aren't as intimate now as we were in the beginning, and as much as I would love to say that's it's the reason behind my problems, I know it's not and can't ever be. Over the last year or so, I've being talking to numerous women online through various different platforms, have talked and have done more than talked (nothing ever physical, purely through texting). Me and my wife have talked about it together multiple times, and after talking about it, there's usually a few weeks to a few months where there aren't any issues regarding it, I'm not reaching out to women and overall our relationship had begun getting better. Unfortunately not too long after that time period, I find myself falling back into it and it ends up just being an endless loop. I don't want to just leave her, as I feel like that would hurt her more and lead her to think that I don't want to try and mend things and get help for it all. But at the same time I want what's best for her in the end. We've talked about therapy for me, however due to our financial situation, it is far out of reach. Im honestly lost on how to handle the entire situation, I've apologized but I know that doesn't mean much of anything at this point in time. I love her and I want to mend things with here and get myself on a path that isn't going to just harm her. Can anyone offer insight on what I can do or how I should go about the situation to get on a better path?
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