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azasky
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PathStep 4 Compassion hearts124 Forum posts17 Forum upvotes13 Current upvotes13 Age GroupAdult Last activeJune, 2021 Member sinceMay 12, 2021
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I am Sky and I'm here for you. To hear you or just to talk. (◍•ᴗ•◍)❤
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7 Cups Online Therapy / by azasky
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June 13th, 2021
...See more So one of my friends(let's call her A) that I recently decided to cut off texted me yesterday calling me names and saying that no one really likes me. It happened a month back when A called another friend's gf a gold digger. I subtly protested but finally agreed with her as she kept giving instances about how that girl is really with our friend for money. Later that night, I told my boyfriend about this because I felt bad and guilty. And my boyfriend decided that our other friend deserves to know about it as well. but when confronted about it, my friend said that I was the one who suggested it and although I feel like I may have been wrong in entertaining A, I am very certain that I did protest when she started gossiping. Ever since high school ended, I have really tried hard to cut off these people because some of them were really mean to me and mostly because whenever I hang out with them, there's always some drama that comes. But when we came to college in the same city, my bf who I live with insisted I hang with them cause they're my "friends". But today when I said I would appreciate it if he would respect my decision to be distant and distance himself a little as well, he got really mad at me. He said that I was always A's puppet. That really hurt me and idk what to do. I have a hard time saying no to people and I always get manipulated easily. but rn im at a really dark spot because I don't have anyone to talk to and I can't stop questioning if I am the toxic person.
lost and afraid
Anxiety Support / by azasky
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June 7th, 2021
...See more I am currently a senior in college. I didn't even get to attend much of college in freshman year because I got sick and because it was online. so I didn't make any new friends and I chose to cut off ties with my old friends cause they were toxic. so I'm left with only 3 friends and a few people in college who I occasionally talk to. But I see that almost everyone in my college are over-achievers, most of them have done multiple internships and are well aware of where they are headed. but all this is really making me anxious and I am always questioning myself on whether I am enough or not.
How do I deal with my partner's distance?
7 Cups Online Therapy / by azasky
Last post
June 7th, 2021
...See more I have been dating this guy for almost 4 years now. We started dating in high school and moved to the city together for college. It was more like he followed me to be more with me. We have been living together for almost 2 years now and we do have quarrels but nothing we couldn't resolve. But ever since we had to move back home due to corona, he has been distancing himself from me. He hasn't been replying to my texts or receiving my calls. When I asked him what's wrong, he has often said that he was busy or with his friends. we get to talk for only about two hours from living next to each other and it's weird. Yesterday he told me that he needed space and that he didn't want to talk to anyone for a few days. I don't know how to react or what to say. We have always shared everything with each other and this distance between us is making me very uncomfortable. What do I do😔
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