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anonySea2203
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PathStep 5 Compassion hearts140 Forum posts7 Forum upvotes7 Current upvotes7 Age GroupAdult Last activeJanuary, 2025 Member sinceJuly 6, 2024
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May I have some encouragement?
Relationship Stress / by anonySea2203
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 1 day ago
...See more Sometimes I just do not understand my own feelings. There are things I am aware of like I suffer from abandonment issues and maybe I’m even a little bit of a spoiled brat. But something I don’t understand is why is it that whenever my partner makes a decision without consulting me it just pisses me off? I fear it may be minor and I’m just blowing it out of proportion but I really dislike feeling like I’m not considered. For example, their family lives close by maybe 2hrs away and whenever something happens they just come in and tell me what they are going to do. It doesn’t even have to be an emergency. Me being agreeable and dumb I never say how I feel. my issue isn’t actually that they want to be there for their family my issue is that I’m often left in the dark with decisions like this and am expected to understand. another example they told their parents they could stay with us before even talking to me about it and again me being agreeable and dumb didn’t even speak up. I don’t even think it would matter if I did. it’s obvious that I feel a way about it because I do not hide my feelings well.. is it so hard to consider your partner? Is it so hard to make decisions together? That’s what you’re supposed to do in a marriage right? now if I return the favor and just start doing whatever then I am in the wrong and no better than them. I’m really just so tired of not knowing if I’m just outta control or if this is a genuine concern. Any kinds words or not so kind if I’m being dumb would be appreciated.
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Am I the Problem?
Relationship Stress / by anonySea2203
Last post
 July 12th, 2024
...See more I find myself crying more and more these days. Not just a normal cry but that ugly snotty nose cry. I’ve never truly realized how unloved I’ve been feeling. How unseen and unheard I’ve been feeling. You know I try really hard to give love to be supportive but you can’t pour from and empty cup…..my cup is empty and I don’t think anyone around me realizes it. Then again when I think about it I’m the common denominator in all of this. I have to be the problem…right?
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