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amtippqt09
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PathStep 4 Compassion hearts23 Forum posts8 Forum upvotes13 Current upvotes13 Age GroupAdult Last activeJuly, 2024 Member sinceAugust 19, 2021
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Trauma Support / by amtippqt09
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July 7th
...See more When I was 12/13, my dad came home drunk and my mom started arguing with him. I’m not sure what I said but I spoke up for my mom. I was sitting on the floor when my dad hit me on the back of my head. All I could think to do was run out the back door. I didn’t come home for a week. I’m 2022 my friend helped me process all of that and I realized I was the only one dealing with that trauma. Now I’m 33 and back in January my daughter’s father hit me the same way while we argued. He’s aware of what I went thru. He moved out and every time I see him I have so many emotions. I have anger and end up being ugly to him which I don’t want that especially around my children. Ex said he would pay for my therapy but I don’t think he really means it. When we talk about it he just brushes it off like no big deal. It felt closed fist but he said it was opened regardless it’s upsetting after 9 years on/off again. He had never hit me prior. Not sure if I can process this situation the same as before.
New partners
Relationship Stress / by amtippqt09
Last post
July 6th
...See more Ex wants to introduce our 2 children to new partner. I say wait 6 months but he keeps pestering to be sooner. I’ve asked several times what’s the rush and of course I get called ugly names. I’ve asked how long they’ve been talking and he won’t answer. He moved out April 1st and swears he started talking after that.. when is an appropriate time for children 10 and under to meet a new partner?
Std/sti testing
Relationship Stress / by amtippqt09
Last post
March 27th, 2023
...See more I have hsv 2. My ex wants to move back in with me. Told him, I’d like him to get tested cause he’s been with other women. He refuses and says I’m trying to blame him for having hsv but I know I got it from someone else. As far as we’re concerned he does not have any stds nor sti’s. Should I let this go or be firm about getting tested.
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