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amicablePal7007
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Relationship Struggles
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by amicablePal7007
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 April 24th, 2020
...See more Oh to be a sapphic with a yearning too strong! Hello all! I've never done anything like this, but my heart is heavyband this quarantine has made me lonely. So I'm in a relationship with a girl, and she is poly, so she has a bf. I'm not dating the guy because, well, I'm a monogamous lesbian. Everything was fine and consensual, but things have recently gotten hard. She chose to stay with her bf during quarantine. Of course, I was sad, but I wouldn't fight it. At first we both missed each other, but the more I tried to talk to her, FaceTime her, and just greet her, the more distant she got. She started telling me I was annoying. I didn't understand because I was just texting her a normal amount, like we always do. But she started telling me I was some sad girl that always brought her down. Sure, I would tell her I missed her, but I tried to keep my messages funny because that's our style of messaging. Well we were excited to get out of quarantine, so we booked a cute little room to stay at for a week so we could still keep distance from crowds but have our own little date. I was so excited, counting down the days, learning new recipes, getting many gigs so I can save up, but she recently changed. She told me she doesn't care for me anymore. She also told me to cancel the reservation so she can go on a retreat with her bf for their monthsary. I don't mind her going out with her bf, but her suddenly not caring and changing our long term plans hurts. How can I cope?
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