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ambitiousPine9287
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Just some random person here! I only vent on this app and prefer to not message people here unless if I asked for it.

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Why are people so mean about a random person's looks?
Self-Esteem / by ambitiousPine9287
Last post
 19 hours ago
...See more My entire life, I have people call me names and pretty much made fun of me for how I looked. I don't even look that bad- I have black hair, small brown eyes, a big round button nose, small ears, big lips, I have eye bags, I have long skinny arms, and my fashion sense is OK. I'm a girl that is mixed with Creole, French, and native American. They would mostly compare me with random people and objects. There had been times where people would do a "smash or pass" and unsolicitly bring me in it and it's always a "pass" people would even do that annoying prank where they would go up to me and say that someone has a crush on me and ask me to follow them, when I do their friend would insult my appearance and or threaten their friend as if I'm the worst looking person they have ever met. I just don't get it. I never acted overconfident about my looks, I never made fun of someone for their looks (In fact, I just don't give a *** on how a random person looks like), I'm not even overly preachy about this type of stuff, I don't even ask for these people's advice or criticism, I don't go inside random people's business or drama and keep to myself, I'm not looking for validation for my looks or anything, I'm just wondering why so many different people call me ugly and use my own looks against me. I look long at the mirror and my phone camera, but I always find nothing physically wrong with me.
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How do I feel less threatened/scared during confrontation?
Motivation & Accountability / by ambitiousPine9287
Last post
 January 10th
...See more I know this is incredibly normal and common, but I would really love to change this. Also, please don't tell me to go to a therapist or to work out more. I already do those things The problem is that I get threatened too easily. You can insult me once, and I'll be scared of you the entire day. It's really annoying since I shake and get really scared even though I'm aware they're just saying stuff. People even make fun of me for it, and or I feel like hot garbage when it happens. Like, I don't know why it happens or why I feel this way during arguments or when someone's actively being an *** towards me.
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Day 3 of not using Reddit
Motivation & Accountability / by ambitiousPine9287
Last post
 December 30th, 2024
...See more I still feel urges to scroll and re-download the app, but I hadn't budged a muscle. I want a similar app where I can watch short videos, but not youtube shorts or ***. Anything is appreciated. I'm so happy. I'm so glad to not be considered a Redditor anymore.
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My grandma annoys me.
Relationship Stress / by ambitiousPine9287
Last post
 December 24th, 2024
...See more Yesterday, I had to donate some clothes for homeless kids because my closet was full. Anyway, I put all the clothes that I didn't wanted or because it didn't fit in some Walmart bags and put it my on grandma's chair. Today, she told me that I put two shirts that still fit me in the bag. I asked her why we still couldn't have donated them and she wouldn't give me an answer. Knowing my mom, she has massive outbursts and pretty much acts like a toddler over petty things like this, so I just took them. For some reason, when I took them, she yelled at me because in her mind, I "Snatched them" even though I know full well that I didn't and I took them normally. What's weird is that she even asked me if I wanted them and I said no, hence was why I wanted them donated and out of my sight (I just said no, but I would respond that way if I had any energy) but yet she still persistent in me keeping them with no actual reasoning. I'm keeping these shirts in the way back of my drawer or secretly throw them away or something. The reason why I don't like the shirts is because it had mickey mouse on them, and I'm not a fan of mickey mouse and I didn't like the odd tye die look on them. I don't want to wear them in the summer or really any day. At least be happy I'm not petty and have massive anger issues like you, mom. Otherwise I would've just burnt them or insulted you 🙄 you should be greatful that I didn't complain about the shirts every day or had a massive outburst like you usually do when things don't go your way 🙄
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WHY do people think like this???
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by ambitiousPine9287
Last post
 December 27th, 2024
...See more People who think they know your sexuality as if they are you. I just had this happen to me and it *** me off immensely. I don't experince crushes and some *** tried to tell me I did over an online argument. It's not that hard to just accept people for who they are 😤🙄
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Does anyone else struggle the same thing.
Depression Support / by ambitiousPine9287
Last post
 December 23rd, 2024
...See more Where in periods of your life you try to improve yourself, but then suddenly you feel depressed and then it all crashes down for a week. It keeps happening to me. I have episodes where I feel depressed (Commonly, on Saturdays, but really any day) and I wouldn't exercise, eat horribly, have unrestricted social media, get behind on my language learning studies, and I stop following through on my sleep. And then I have an idea to start working on myself (Usually on Mondays, but again, really any other day) Follow through on that plan for a week, and then fall back again on my habits. Any advice is appreciated.
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How do I know if I'm experiencing sexual/romantic attraction?
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by ambitiousPine9287
Last post
 May 29th, 2024
...See more I've been doing a bit of research on the terms and yet I'm still confused. Like, for some reason my head cannot wrap around the ideas at all. How do you know if you're experiencing sexual/romantic attraction? And if so, if you could provide me examples (You do not have to!) Because I'm so confused.
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