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ambitiousDrum3600
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Supporting performance anxiety.
Relationship Stress / by ambitiousDrum3600
Last post
 October 8th, 2020
...See more My boyfriend has recently started struggling to keep erection during sex. He has mental health issues and has changed medications. I have absolutely no problem with this happening I love him and dont care if we need to stop half way through. He beats himself up so much and over the weekend he told me he thinks its performance anxiety. I told him I'm glad he felt he could tell me and I'll support him however needed but that it doesn't bother me our relationship is more than just sex. Like I said he never had this problem before I'm just wondering how can I support him or are there things I can do to help him feel comfortable. I suffer from anxiety myself so I know how uncomfortable an anxious situation can be
Change in sex life
Relationship Stress / by ambitiousDrum3600
Last post
 May 20th, 2020
...See more My boyfriend has a history of abuse in his childhood both physical and sexual. When we started seeing each other he was always very distant after sex and I linked it with his history. He would barely be finished and he would get up and dress himself there were no cuddles. He was also very rough with sex which I didn't mind as he always gave me insane orgasms. He told me he likes to experiment alot with sex and has done with his exes. We are together over a year now and in that time he has opened up a lot to me about his past which he is happy hes comfortable enough to do. For the last 4 months how sex has changed he feels much more lovely he takes things slow and gentle and now insists on cuddles afterwards. The only problem I'm having with the changes is I can't orgasm anymore. I didn't want to hurt is feeling so I've been faking it. I dont know how to approach the subject without hurting is feeling. I think I'm the first he has ever taken the gentle approach with based on stories he has told me. I really don't want to hurt his feeling I love him very much
Boyfriend smokes weed
Relationship Stress / by ambitiousDrum3600
Last post
 April 9th, 2020
...See more My boyfriend struggles with mental health issues such as depression and anxiety as do i myself. We dont live together and tonight he sent me a picture that he was trying weed for first time to see if it would help. I dont agree with this at all but i want to be supportive
I dont hide my self harm
Self-Harm Recovery / by ambitiousDrum3600
Last post
 April 9th, 2020
...See more Why dont i mind if my boyfriend of a year finds out that i am self harming again? We havnt seen each other in a month due to lockdown and ive been struggling with my anxiety and 2 days ago i started hurting myself again i didnt tell him but i dont mind if he finds out. Why?
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