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Relationship Stress / by adventurousKite9382
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 April 26th, 2016
...See more My fiance broke up with me 2 months ago. We were still in school and just graduated recently. The last two months he has been hot and cold. Nice and ignoring me. When we first broke up it seemed like he still cared for me. He would text me to see how my work progress was. Tells me tp drive home safe. I too was hot and cold in the sense that there were days i was confident and i could talk to him fine. Then i was depressed and couldnt even look him in the eye. Now i am just depressed. We had our graduation show. We studied design. It was hard cuz i had to stand next to him for 5 hrs. I won an award that night for my design and he didnt. Yet in the end i went home crying because i missed him. Two days later he returns my things to me. He asked me if i have a job yet. I said no. I was also depressed and he can tell. Then he proceeded to tell me he might go to detroit cuz someone from the graduation show invited him for an interview. I was devastated that he was leaving me behind when he promised me marriage. We planned to get married after graduating. I called my friend and said i felt frustration anger and sadness. I told him what happened. My friend said my ex was rubbing it in my face to make me feel bad! Then everything made sense. I ended up googling narcissistic behavior and dating pattern...and he fit the description exactly. It was the most terrifying discovery because narcs do not know how to love. That made me so scared and confused. Contd below
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