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adaptableLychee1588
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I hate my mother
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 July 29th, 2023
...See more I am here for the first time so forgive me if I am writing this on wrong place. When you see a daughter shouting/hating on her mother you always think the problem is the daughter. Mothers are said to be someone who loves their kids unconditionally. But that's not the case with me. I am 17 right now and I will not ever call her my "mother". Ever since I was a kid I remember her treating me differently than my siblings, I have a younger brother and older sister. But our relationship only worsened and its not like I not tried, I tried to more nice to her but she never cares. She cusses at me from 2 years. I was a little overnight from 6 years she always used to fatshame me. If I eat she had a problem that I eat too much but because of that I started eating lesser and lesser. Really small portions of food but still she had a problem. At a moment I started eating one time in day that too just some fruits. When I didn't eat food she told my dad I waste food. Recently, she made something and me and my siblings ate equally. I ate the last one and next day she tells me that I shouldn't have ate that she wanted to eat it. She stole money from me and I found about it, she became more mean. She many times stole my clothes and never gave it back even my footwear. I can somewhat cook so I used to cook something for me and my siblings as she didn't let me eat. Then at one time she completely stopped making food for even my siblings. We have to go out somewhere or make something ourselves. During school too she never made tiffin especially for me. My dad always brought me some snacks. I was eating breakfast at 6 am and coming home at 3 pm. She told our relatives bad things about me and many believed her because she seems nicer than me, i dont talk much to people. And i didn't want to talk about her because i still had some respect for her. I love my siblings and they can see her hatred for me. But i cannot tell them about how worse is she when they are not around. Many people come and ask me why am i mean to my mother or give advice like she loves you you should always help her around she does not think had of you.She many times have told me I am not her daughter and I can never call her "mother" too. She fake cries in front of relatives and they take her side. My dad knows the truth about her and they don't have a good relationship as well to be honest if he was never there I would have been dead. He loves me too but my mother doesn't like and tries to ruin our relationship. But he is my hero he always knows me. I don't wanna be the victim but it's hard to heal this for me. I wanna be stronger so please give me some advice I cannot open up to people . Also I am really insecure and very introverted and I cannot make any friends. I have just 2 real friends
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