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Relationship Stress / by abcxyz001
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 November 28th, 2022
...See more My boyfriend told me that someone from his office (the particular coworker apparently being unknown to him) left a bottle of his favorite cologne on his desk with no card, note or justifiable reason (like a holiday or work-related event/occasion). This troubled me (still does) and we have been fighting about it because he cannot understand why I would see anything negative about this, and despite my best efforts, I cannot get him to see it from my perspective. To me, cologne is a very personal, almost intimate, gift, so I question whether this is even appropriate. I also find it odd that he either truly doesn't know or doesn't want to know who gave him this gift. And finally, I am suspicious as to why a coworker would gift this to him anonymously. Without having anyone else to ask - and with my boyfriend making me feel like I am so far removed from current normal trends and behaviors of people - I need to know from someone unbiased...Am I wrong to question the story and/or the motives/meaning? Thank you to the entire community in advance.
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