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aadalet
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PathStep 80 Compassion hearts22 Forum posts17 Forum upvotes32 Current upvotes32 Age GroupAdult Last activeJuly, 2019 Member sinceFebruary 12, 2019
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having problems w/ friend
Relationship Stress / by aadalet
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 July 6th, 2019
...See more My best friend has always done a couple of things that bother me, and it's gotten to a point where I need to talk to him about it soon for my own mental wellbeing. However, he's currently in the middle of a stretch of bad mental health, and will be more sensitive and less receptive to what I'm saying. I need to talk to him, but I don't want to make our relationship or his mental health worse. What should I do?
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dissociation around other people
Personality Disorders Support / by aadalet
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 March 1st, 2019
...See more I find myself craving interaction with my friends and loved ones so much it hurts, but whenever I'm around them, I dissociate. Nothing feels real and its as if I can never be satisfied. Any advice?
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anxiety from being sick
Anxiety Support / by aadalet
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 February 22nd, 2019
...See more In the past month, I had the flu (and missed a week of school) and now have a stomach bug. Missing school makes me super anxious about missing work, but being sick in general makes me really panicky. I feel trapped and like I'm not in control, and it kind of makes me spiral into a bad headspace and unhealthy coping mechanisms. What should I do to prevent this?
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I think I have BPD
Personality Disorders Support / by aadalet
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 February 23rd, 2019
...See more I have a history of friendships with toxic people that caused a lot of emotional damage. Now, I really struggle with having regular, healthy relationships. I get way too attached and possessive way too fast. I'm totally spaced out a lot of the time, and feel almost as if I'm watching my body from above. I spend all of my time wanting attention from my friends. I feel kind of like I'm being manipulative. I can be spending time with my friends and feeling happy, but as soon as I leave I feel completely numb and empty. Does that sound like BPD? How do people cope?
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friendship tension
Relationship Stress / by aadalet
Last post
 February 21st, 2019
...See more A few nights ago, my best friend and I had an argument. He had kind of an anxious breakdown, and he snapped and yelled at me. He's doing better now, but everything has been really tense since then. Last night we tried to talk through everything, because we both just want everything to go back to being normal. It seemed like we're on the same page, but there's still tension. I don't know what to do- I really value his friendship and I don't want to lose that. Any advice?
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Friend problems
Relationship Stress / by aadalet
Last post
 February 13th, 2019
...See more Last night, my best friend told me he was really struggling and thinking about self-harming again, and the only thing he's said to me today was asking me to leave him alone. I'm terrified that he's in danger, but also I can't help but feel mad at him for putting me through this. I didn't sleep last night because I was so worried. I want to be helpful but I'm worried that he won't let me help or that my own emotions will get in the way. What should I do?
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