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YourShouder03
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Number of ratings11 Number of reviews10 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceFeb 14, 2024 Last activein last 6 months GenderFemale PathStep 229 People helped66 Chats161 Listener group chats20 Forum posts100 Forum upvotes217
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 .˚₊♡˙A smooth sea has never made a skilled sailor .˚₊♡˙

I extend not only my ears, but my heart to yours


-ℳ❤︎

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  • Currently not available for new Member chats 🎀

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  • She/Her 🎀
  • Aspiring Psychologist 🎀
  • Completed 7C Internship 🎀
  • Verified Listener🎀
Recent forum posts
❤︎ Choose Optimism ❤︎
IDG 7 Cups Community Hub / by YourShouder03
Last post
October 16th
...See more ⋆˙⟡♡₊˚⊹. "When it rains, look for rainbows" .⊹˚₊♡⟡˙⋆ Lets be honest- this is easier said than done.  Believing in light when all you've ever known is darkness can feel almost impossible. But this form of attitude doesn't mean you force yourself into fake positivity. Instead, it allows us to stop, breathe and reflect. Optimistic people assess the difficulties and understand setbacks are temporary and its potential for personal growth. Research has demonstrated how these individuals have lower stress levels, longer lifespans and overall better physical health.  How To Master Optimism: * Find at least one positive in each situation ❤︎ * Practise gratitude ❤︎ * Set realistic goals ❤︎ * Be mindful of self-talk ❤︎ * Challenge negative thoughts ❤︎ * Surround yourself with positive influences ❤︎ * Give yourself a level of grace ❤︎ * Remember everything passes - good or bad. ❤︎ Q&A : ☆ Give an example of a difficult situation you faced, whats one positive thing you gained from it?  ☆ How important do you think being optimistic is?
❦ Ikigai ❦
IDG 7 Cups Community Hub / by YourShouder03
Last post
July 29th
...See more ❤︎₊ ⊹ ꨄ ⋆˙⟡ Finding Your True Purpose ❤︎₊ ⊹ ꨄ ⋆˙⟡ "Do you see your life as something you create? Or do you see your life as something that is happening to you? ...What are we here for?" Ikigai (ee-key-guy) is a Japanese concept which combines the terms Iki ("life") and gai ("worth") When combined - this term may translate to "a reason for being". This form of philosophy is not just about achieving happiness, but cultivating a mindset where one experiences a profound sense of fulfillment and purpose.  At its core, Ikigai explores four central pillars: what one loves (Passion), what the world needs (Vocation), what one can be paid for (Profession) and what one is good at (Mission). Through the intersection of these four components, individuals can uncover their unique Ikigai which can guide us through serving a life with never-ending satisfaction and meaning. Its harmonises personal passion with professional pursuits whilst creating a balanced existence. How does this relate to me? Well, I've embarked on a journey of self-fulfilment through my goal in becoming a Psychologist. As this has been a passion of mine since I was a child, it effortlessly embodies my Ikigai through the holistic alignment of what I love, what Im good at, what I can professionally pursue and what the world needs. Its a simple yet meaningful way to carve our paths ahead. So what is your passion? What brings you joy in everyday life? What is your dream career? Would the world benefit from your unique gift? 
Newbie Listener
Newbie Hub / by YourShouder03
Last post
July 31st
...See more Hey😊 Im new here! Started my journey as a Listener on Valentines day💗 Always wanted to work in the mental health field, so this year Ive gone for lots of opportunities that could help me, this being one  Hopefully itll be a lovely journey  -M<3
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Really great listener. Confident, responsive, attentive, positive, calm, and kind :)
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