XiTalksSoft
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Rating
Number of ratings68
Number of reviews18
Listens toOver 18
LanguagesEnglish
Listener sinceNov 5, 2015
Last activeover 6 months ago
GenderFemale
PathStep 183
People helped117
Chats399
Group support chats422
Listener group chats685
Forum posts58
Forum upvotes100
Bio
Hi! I'm Xi and I've been through a lot, worked through a lot, and am still working through a lot. I'm 26, trans, pansexual, and grey-asexual giving me lots of experience with LGBTQ+ issues. I have personal experience with depression, self-harm, PTSD, anxiety, eating disorders, and have experienced sexual assault first-hand. I'm also ok with chatting about things involving BDSM, D/s relationships, and fetishes. I hope I can be someone to confide in who can help you in any way I can! If I'm not online feel free to leave me a message!
**Currently I am only taking short-term chats and cannot offer long term chats**
**Currently I am only taking short-term chats and cannot offer long term chats**
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Feedback & Reviews
You're undoubtedly one of the best listeners I have found on the 7 cups, intelligent, kind and able to make people feel important and valid. I haven't noticed any single prejudice or even the smallest judgement. It's not that you just keep it for yourself, I'm sure you really don't judge and that you're simply prejudice-free. That's why you're so great at listening! Our chat helped me a lot. It was exactly what I needed.
Best listener ever comfortable chatting with a variety of topics
Good
Very helpful and warm!
Lovely, compassionate person. Made me feel safe and comfortable and is very open minded.
She actually cared and understood what i was saying
This listener is AMAZING! Knew exactly what to say to make me feel understood. Definately made me feel not so alone. Thank you!
A really great emphatic and gentle listener, who cheered me up a lot and made me feel like i am understood very quickly.
I am glad to have found them~
I am glad to have found them~
Good listener! Especially good if you want to discuss sexual issues. The listener is a trained sexologist and based on her experience, she makes good suggestions. Overall a nice and bold person to talk to.
I am really glad I meet her she is a wonderful listener.
I know the active listening and repeat back statements helped me immensely. I would appreciate a little less professionalism somewhat I think actually. A peer to talk to. But I was helped immensely!
Amazing listener! Headed the conversation exactly where I needed to. Really professional and sweet! :)
I was really nervous to start a live chat with someone, but Xi made me feel really comfortable the whole time. Even when I was not sure what to say, they kept the conversation going, until I felt better so I did not feel like I had to make something up or stop talking too quickly. It was good to talk with someone who gets how I am feeling. Xi helped me to look at the positives and encouraged me to look at how far I have come in my growth.
thank you very very much :)
was vary helpful, I look foreword to talking with them again
She listened well would really like to talk to her more thanks again
Great Listener!
I could tell she really understood me
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