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WickedSick
55 563,490 M Meaningful Journey 13
PathStep 4 Compassion hearts53,794 Forum posts38 Forum upvotes111 Current upvotes111 Age GroupAdult Last activeNovember, 2024 Member sinceJuly 11, 2017
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       “I'm not living, I'm just killing time.”

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Truth is like a surgery. It hurts but cures. Lie is like a painkiller. It gives instant relief but has side effects forever.


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       “The real question is not whether life exists after death. The real question is whether you are alive before death.”









Osho 









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The longer I live, the more convinced am I that this planet is used by other planets as a lunatic asylum.









George Bernard Shaw









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“We are in such a hurry to grow up, and then we long for your lost childhood. We make ourselves ill earning money, and then spend all our money on getting well again. We think so much about the future that we neglect the present, and thus experience neither the present nor the future. We live as if we were never going to die, and die as if we had never lived.” 









Paulo Coelho







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“Woe betide those who live by way of examples!
Life is not with them. If you live according to an example, you thus
live the life of that example, but who should live your own life if not
yourself? So live yourselves.” 



C.G. Jung









Recent forum posts
Signs of toxic relationship
Relationship Stress / by WickedSick
Last post
 December 29th, 2023
...See more I was reading a post and I found it nicely worded, so I thought to share it with the rest Some signs you’re in a toxic relationship: 1. Lack of support (they don’t help you succeed) 2. Toxic communication (sarcasm, criticism, hostility) 3. Jealousy (a common emotion but handled by people very differently. Here we talk about toxic jealousy, and behaviors that express it) 4. Controlling behaviors (demanding your whereabouts, forbidding you to go places or see people, constantly limiting your personal choices) 5. Resentment (too much is toxic) 6. Patterns of disrespect (forgetting events and other behaviors that demonstrate they don’t respect your time) 7. Negative financial behaviors (Big financial decisions which effect your life together without consulting you) 8. Ignoring your needs (but tends to all his own just fine) 9. You’ve lost relationships (you stop spending time with friends and family to keep from exposing them to your toxic relationship) 10. Lack of self care (you drop hobbies and other things that used to personally bring you joy) 11. Eternal hope for change (when you fool yourself in to thinking if you change yourself and your actions, that it will create positive change in them) 12. Walking on eggshells (to avoid problems, arguments, and issues)
Just a thought
Depression Support / by WickedSick
Last post
 February 6th, 2020
...See more There was a saying, most people messed up something good by looking for something better only to end up with something worse, I had an okay life, throw it all away to chase some illusions, closer friends, better job, etc, only to end up in a crappy job, alone with no one in my life. while its all my fault, just a kind reminder for those who do read this, be happy with what you got, never take anything for granted, dont chase so hard, because you will end up losing what you already have
Ever wondered about this?
Depression Support / by WickedSick
Last post
 September 3rd, 2017
...See more Not sure if this is the right place to share this Ever wondered that we are all alone at the end, we wake up see plenty of people, friends, partners, whom we have no idea who really are they, we just see what they want us to see, and we just play along, faking everything about our lives and thoughts and feelings, to feel accepted and loved, doing things we cant stand, just because we have to other choice, and time pass by, leaving us with nothing more than an illusion we do create, losing ourselves, and freedom, for a very fake reality. And then come our ego and self interest, giving values and meaning to meaningless worthless things, and another cycle of illusion starts again, leaving us even more lost and confused When it's all said and done, life is just a fake illusion nothing real in it, if we do cast out our ego, self interest, and looked at real things, what is there left for us to live, (I'm here talking about me) just a miserable life, full of self hatered for being a fake, but I dont know any other way to live
Is there is a way out
Depression Support / by WickedSick
Last post
 May 28th
...See more Hello there, just some random venting I have been depressed as far as I can remember, I have done everything that came to my mind to cope with my depression, but with no luck, people told me, change your job, it will do you good, did that, things got better for a month, and return to the same old story, people said, you just need to socialize, I made tons of friends, same thing with my work, got better for awhile, and then same old story, people said, learn a hobby, I did that, and it did not last long and it became like anything to kill time, therapy suggested few things as well, and its always same story, temp reliefs and back to the same numbness, and doing things like a robot, did change almost every aspect in my life, but with no results, just complete waste of time, money and effort
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