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Valentina101
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Relationship Stress / by Valentina101
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 March 15th, 2019
...See more Me and my best friend got into a fight but it feels more like a break up. Weve been friends for a year but it was one of the most difficult years of my life so I really depend on him and I almost feel like I cant function without him. He messes up all the time and I always forgive him because I love him. We never really established what we were but I didnt care because he said he was mine. Hes so attractive and lovely, and I care for him so much that I always go back to him. But when we first fell in love we promised each other 3 things: we would never date other people, we would never lie to each other, and we keep all our private conversations private. Well let me tell you that he broke those first 2 numerous times but back in October I showed my friend our private texts because I was just so damn proud of myself. I never told him because I was scared he would get mad. fast forward 4 months and he becomes controlling, yes hes my best friend but he would let me do anything. You cant talk to him and you cant do that. But he could. He was never violent, he was just serious about what he wanted. So, he found today that I told my friend about our conversations and he basically just cut me off. But he dated 3 girls, lied to me almost every week and I always forgave him but he just dropped me like a pancake because I told someone he me sent dirty text messages? Im just so mad, sad and confused so my question is: should I try to get him back. (I know hes an ass )
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