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UnderstandingMatrix
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5 star rating
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Number of ratings21 Number of reviews18 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, Dutch Listener sinceJan 17, 2017 Last activein last month PathStep 100 People helped103 Chats656 Group support chats129 Listener group chats51 Forum posts25 Forum upvotes33
Bio
I'm Dutch and a 5th year Uni student. Please be honest and straightforward. If I'm not helping you, don't shy away from telling me. :)

"The things that matter most in life are typically not easy" - ?

"While it is always best to believe in one's self, a little help from others can be a great blessing." - Uncle Iroh, ATLA

Very busy lately :/ . not taking new chats until oktober

What my status means:

OFFLINE
I am not online, or otherwise unavailable. I may show up in a room, but know that I really don't have time. Feel free to leave a message though if we already have a chat, I will reply when i can :)

BUSY
I am not available to take on new members. If we have a chat going, I will respond. I, however, cannot guarantee staying online for a long period.

ONLINE
I am online, ready to take on new members and ready to have long form chats :D


For those that left reviews: thank you very much!


 


Feedback & Reviews
Very good listener
very helpful and feel safe to speak and comfort
The best one, so kind and patient, listened to all my words highly recommended!!
Very nice, listened to everything I had to say
UnderstandingMatrix is one of the rare listeners here, they were willing to give me the time I needed to express my feelings, and provided me a safe space and heard me when i needed it. Thank you matrix!!
Thank you for listening to my extremely difficult situation, they listened and asked me questions to help me understanding things. I will always appreciate this
Good listener, very caring.
Honestly, everything's great, I have zero complaints. I felt comfortable sharing pretty much immediately and I felt heard and understood. I don't think I could have had a better start on this platform. If you fancy that like I do: I really appreciate the semi-regular check-ins we're doing and sometimes going off topic for a bit. Would have been 6 stars if he was able to make my issues disappear. I guess 5 is still decent. 😉
Amazing listener. felt sooo much better venting
Felt like talking to a kind and understanding friend
Such a good listener
Good listener, his time is greatly appreciated 🙏
Great listener.
great listener, helped me come to a decision.
I great listener. He really tried to understand what I was saying and stock with me. It was a nice chat
I like it. It is very helpful
he was good. provided support.
He is very understanding and attentive. He was able to give me a warm and supportive environment to be in. I wish I could be as half as understanding as him. I am thankful I stumbled across this path to meet him.
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