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TribeOfPug
983 M Little Steps 2
PathStep 52 Compassion hearts42 Forum posts15 Forum upvotes11 Current upvotes11 Age GroupAdult Last activeAugust, 2021 Member sinceJuly 12, 2021
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Hi. I'm still exploring here, figuring out ways it is helpful, and thinking on ways I might be able to help here. I live with many very heavy problems: health issues, poverty, relationship & and family issues, all in extreme isolation. I have to accept things as they are on a day to day (or even moment to moment basis.) I have had to for years to continue on. Even on the worst of days, I find small moments of wonder and joy by taking time to appreciate the small things in my life that enrich my life: my plants, my stones, and-- of course-- my pugs. On the good days I take steps to catch up &/or build on progress I make. Even if slower than I'd like, I recognize that I'm making progress in most all of those problem areas I'd mentioned. I have a very broad range of interests, and have led a life that I find is often quite different than what most others existences typically include, at least in some ways. I think it's crucial to both know and like oneself. That way you're guaranteed good company for the rest of your life. =O)
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7 Cups Academy / by TribeOfPug
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July 19th, 2021
...See more Hi. Ok, so. Please bare with me. The answers I seek might have answers somewhere already, &/or somewhere the questions have been asked and answered. I'm new and it can take to figure things out here. Off the top of my head I can think of 3 communities I'd love to be a part of through 7cups. I don't know if they already exist, or have in the past. The forums are numerous and posts are vast. I'd join, or wouldn't mind taking a shot at leading a new one-- if that's allowed. The problem is I am concerned whether or not 2 would be appropriate/fit within 7cup quidelines. I'll list them in order of interest, which coincides with potential for a issue. 1.) A remote karaoke group. - singing to/for/with others is remarkably healing. There are free apps that allow people to form groups. Having a place to find people to sing with is hard for people that have little to no social connects in the world. 2.) An interfaith spiritual center. People can express that part of themselves and relate to others of all traditions and personal paths in a way that focuses on personal growth and compassionate unity. (I'd personally love to cover how Carl Jung believed the Yi-Jing can act as a form of self-therapy he believed would be ideal for those without access to a therapist. ) 3.) Adult ADHD peer support. Ok. I'd love thoughts and advice and being generally pointed in the right directions. Thank you for your time and help
Slowing down with plants (& random acts of kindness)
Mindfulness Center / by TribeOfPug
Last post
December 20th, 2021
...See more Originally a trick I picked up to deal with seasons change, that adapted well to pandemic isolation, was getting a house plant in the fall. It would help me transition to a slower pace of mind. Just paying attention to it-- sometimes several times a day, others a few times a week, watching how it grew mostly you, turning it to optimize sun exposure, sometimes seeing how it would respond to triming any given leaf or branch or after feeding it. Real life confession: sometimes I snag small insignificant branches from plants I admire when I go on walks. I stuff them in my pocket and then try to get them to root at home. It works often. (Yes I am a plant thief, but an ethical one. I try for bits that need pruning anyways.) I started making living arrangements with those. Then I went a step further and began incorporating minerals into the arrangements. I find thrm everywhere in this city, aquamarine, tourmaline, etc etc. At this point I've been getting branches of wisteria to grow around intertwined pieces of old jewelry. One plant I "stole" I actually rescued. Last year the source plant around the corner was crushed and didn't grow back. A beautiful purple plant. I was so happy to plant one of it's clones where it once stood. If I loved that plant and noticed it's absence, maybe others did as well. I plan to leave some of the arrangements in random places, but in their pots. People might smash or toss some, but my hope is to make someone's day to take it home with them, and inspire wonder. Please. Tell me about any kinds of creative random acts of kindness you'd enjoy or already do. Thanks for reading all that, for me that's an act of kindness in-and-of itself. =O)
Seeking long term, I'm easy to work with.
General Support / by TribeOfPug
Last post
July 14th, 2021
...See more Hi. I go by TribeOfPug, and I'm a resilient person that deals with multiple issues: chronic illness, ADHD, and unintentional isolation. Currently, I'm going through a really rough time in the course of a separation from an 11 year relationship. My health had been improving, and I'm currently hopefully the current medical plan will greatly include my quality of life-- if not fix the issues entirely. Before the recent upset, beyond the medical treatment plan, I had been working on setting up opportunities to engage with others and hopefully make connections. I had very few friends before the pandemic, and the few I had distanced themselves from me during the course of the past year+. My 5 older siblings also have shut me out. My elderly parents live across country. I need a listener that will help be get through this tough time, hear about how my work towards making friends is going, and generally work with me on the challenges of ADHD that impact my adult life. Once my difficult time has passed, I hope to be a Listener myself. I have developed outstanding self- soothing and problem solving skills that allows me to appreciate small moments of joy each day, and would love to help others discover what that would be for themselves. I've been in therapy most of my life. My current one is the first I've ever picked for myself (she's great!!) I just feel that to honor all the help I've had in my life, I would love to be able to helps others. I appreciate anyone taking the time to read all this. I've been a member less than 2 days and have been working hard to find the best way to engage. Thank you for your time. =O)
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