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Titus83
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I enjoy being with my family, playing games with my Wife and kids. Movie time or binge watching shows is what we tend to do most of the time. I love them very much. Other than that I am just a geeky guy.
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I dont want my marriage to end... again
Relationship Stress / by Titus83
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 July 28th, 2017
...See more Quick backstory: My wife and I were married in 2005, and a few laters after issues arose and were not properly handled, ended with my wife being unfaithful and leaving me and our kids. I was hurt and angry, but I still cared about her and would help her from time to time with what she needed. After almost 5 years of being seperated she asked me to accept her back. I took time to think it over and said yes, adopting her new born son as my own. We have all been together since late 2013. I love my wife very much, I feel happy being with her and making her happy. I may not understand certain things and I am hesistant in speaking to her because some times her reactions to what i say make me feel that I am wrong or that it was my fault. so i got use to not saying things that needed to say to avoid conflict, but i would make things worse. It has gotten to the point that my wife feels I don't listen. May she is right, but I don't do anything purposely to hurt her feelings. I want to correct what I do that upsets her and I feel there is a lot that I have done to correct my mistakes. But these past couple of months, if feels that she has checked out emotionally. She has started to work more, so our conflicting schedules interfere with time together to hopefully repair our relationship. I am trying to be more vocal on what i am feeling, but it seems that it only makes things worse. I feel impatient that this rift is taking too long to resolve between us and that she is not wanting to be with me anymore. I want to change, i want to listen and giver her what she needs. I can see how i have been selfish and cowardly, and impatient. I have been reading post on this site to give me advice and I feel that if i just give her space to figure out what she wants then maybe we can try to pick up the pieces and work from there when she is ready. I don't want to lost hope, but i feel the worse is coming.
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