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Theamani
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PathStep 2 Compassion hearts45 Forum posts40 Forum upvotes31 Current upvotes31 Age GroupAdult Last activeOctober, 2022 Member sinceApril 21, 2020
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Relationship Stress / by Theamani
Last post
 December 12th, 2021
...See more i need some advice. i have problems with my husband at the start of our marriage. he was never emotional support. inshort he wasnt my friend. i donnot know without friendship how we can love another person. because of our traumatic start of marraige i am unable to move on. its so hard for me to accpet that certain things are not meant for me. i literally needed a friend. i ask him to be one. is it a good idea that the person who give me trauma became my friend to sort it out or help me move on or its just a bad idea.
helpless to let go
Relationship Stress / by Theamani
Last post
 September 7th, 2021
...See more due to our past hisotry with my hubsnad. i feel it hard to trust my husband. like whenever he said that he loves me or he miss me. i do not belive it. my husband cheated on me when we were emgaged. but the day he got married he is clean and i am sure about it. i am unable to forgive him for the lie deep down. he ask for forgivness countless time and i did forgive him at that moment. but theese thought they got trigger over minor things. i dont know how to move on. its been 4.5 years but i am still stuck there. i feel so helpless. i do not know what to how to do. how to let if go.and be at peace. and to feel happy again.
marraige advice needed
Relationship Stress / by Theamani
Last post
 August 25th, 2021
...See more hi its a long post so bear with me. we got married 4 years before and before marraige he have another girl in his life. how we got married its a long story. first year of marraige was like hell he dont have job and we have financial problems along with his personal issue. whcih i think because of his breakup he needed time to move on. so i let it pass. now the real problem is after the birth of our baby he became so distant that i do not understand him anymore. i do not know what he feels about me. i do not belive him when he says he loves me because one day he act what he said. amd the other day he make me feel shit again. i tried to communicate with him but it is not working. i am soo upset to not knowing what the hell is wrong and i failed to spot the real problem. he do not want to leave me either and tolf me that he want to settle down.i am tired and exhausted from this situation.
friendship support
Relationship Stress / by Theamani
Last post
 August 20th, 2021
...See more i use to have good quality friends. but as time passes by everything chsnges. we are still friends but we lost quality. after their marraige and my marraige. i feel so alone at time to have no one to talk to. i do not know what i am looking for. or why i am wrtting this. its some kind of crisis period.
is it love!
Relationship Stress / by Theamani
Last post
 July 18th, 2021
...See more i never have any relation with anyone before. ao he is basically my first one. who made me feel loved. when we got married i got to know that he was cheating on my during our engagement time which last one year. it was long distance. he didnt tell me anything before we got married after marraige he told me everything. he say sorry to me and ask for forgivness. i do forgive him but i am unable to forget. we are living together. its been 4 years we have a baby together. he told me he loves me but deep down in my heart i always feel that he never loved me. he marry me because of other reasons. but its all in my mind. i dont have amy proof. he said and claim otherwise. after marraige he never cheated on me. but its hard for me to trust him again. plus his love is like seasons.... some day he was soo good to me and other day he just feel so distant. i am not sure. is this love?
Lookimg for friends
Relationship Stress / by Theamani
Last post
 July 10th, 2020
...See more Hi i am looking for some friends. I move to a new country and dont have friends here. Its soo tough to make new friends. I know its not a platform but yes.
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