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TheCrew4887
18 29,737 M Determined Treads
Fronting: Aiden
PathStep 15 Compassion hearts1,524 Forum posts77 Forum upvotes85 Current upvotes85 Age GroupTeen Last activeNovember, 2024 Member sinceMay 13, 2022
Bio

System. He/They collective pronouns. Name and pronouns change, check our pfp for the fronter's name. Call us Crew if you don't know who's fronting.

If we say we’re blurry, that means we’re either dissociating or don’t know who’s fronting. This could be because of stress or anxiety, but might happen randomly sometimes. 

Signoffs are to tell you who is fronting! Ex. Jacob is fronting so he types 'Hello! - Jacob'. 


individual bios (may be revised later when these people front)


Clementine/Clem - Hey! I use She/Her pronouns. I play the flute and I also do some of the schoolwork and handle school life occasionally. 


Jackson - I used to be our main host. I uses He/Him pronouns and I named myself after my Jackson brand guitar! I like heavy metal and nu metal. I play both acoustic and electric guitar and I like to crochet and knit. I’m also a big Minecraft fan. I usually front when family interactions are more common like during breaks and stuff. 


Jacob - Heyyy! What's up? I play guitar (like Jackson lol) and really like hair metal! I'm kind of similar to Katie in a way since my role in the system is to try to lift our moods and stuff! I also handle stress and sometimes I blurr with Katie. I'm the current host! I also like birds and history, especially archaeology and palaeontology.


Katie - I like using abbreviations and emoticons! I also like emojis :D. my favorite candy is either butterscotch or caramel (not the hard candies, soft ones). I'm typically pretty hyper since my role is to lift the spirits of everyone in the system! I'll usually front if we're having a bad day, if something bad happens or if we read a sad story. Sometimes I'll front for other reasons too! I really like sweets :3


Phoenix - Phoenix is an anger holder in our system, but please don't let that intimidate you. She's actually really nice and can be pretty chill if she's not currently doing her job/role (not that she's not chill other times).

Ash/Ashley/Ashlyn - Primary protector and caretaker, She/They. I usually handle homework, schoolwork, and other possibly stressful tasks. If I'm fronting I'll probably either be off and on or leave for long periods of time since I'm the one who does a lot of work in my system. I'm also good with littles and children too. Feel free to ask me for help if you need help with schoolwork as long as it's not above pre-calc, english 4, French 5, etc. difficulty. I also can't help with physics.


Aiden - Hey. I use He/They pronouns, mostly He/Him. I'm also a protector and a caretaker. I also consider myself a soother, calming people down who are struggling, hurt, or in need of support. I'm mostly focused on protecting and supporting people within my system unlike Ash who helps everyone she can like a therapist-friend and a mother all in one. I will offer support to anyone in need, just know that if I'm fronting there's probably something I'm trying to help with already and my response time might be slow. 


Toby: Uses He/Him pronouns, likes arcade games, nintendo games, Tetris and 2048. Mostly good at math and science.

Aimee: Uses any pronouns, likes games and handles schoolwork and extracurriculars

Ron: They/Them, barely fronts

Abbigail/Abbi: She/They, chill, likes music (punk, emo and metal specifically). Laid back.















































Recent forum posts
Mystery Pattern Sharing! (Crochet).
Arts & Crafts / by TheCrew4887
Last post
 November 13th
...See more Mystery Patterns are patterns for a crochet project that the crocheter doesn't know what it'll end up as until they're done. I usually see this done with amigurumi, but anything works! The patterns are usually released in sections over several days or even weeks to keep it fun and keep the suspense.  If you join, I have some optional rules to help keep it more fun for everyone else! 1. Make sure to list the estimated yardage needed and the colors needed to make it work best 2. Include instructions for special stitches (Bubble stitch, etc).  Typical Rules:  * Step-by-step releases: The pattern is divided into sections, and each part is released periodically—sometimes over several weeks or months. * No spoilers: Participants are encouraged not to spoil the outcome for others, maintaining the mystery and excitement. * Interactive community: These projects often foster a sense of community, as crocheters share their progress, ask questions, and help each other out while following the mystery pattern. * Variety of designs: Mystery crochet patterns can range from small accessories (like scarves or shawls) to larger projects (like blankets or garments). They can also be stuffed animals or appliques. 
Revision Help for Senior Paragraph
Student Support / by TheCrew4887
Last post
 October 3rd
...See more So basically I need help with grammar and revisions for this thing I wrote for my senior page. Here's what I have: I’d first like to thank my parents for always being there for me and helping me attend such a wonderful school with such amazing teachers. I will always be grateful for my brother (E) who was always my biggest supporter and lifelong friend, for my grandparents who would take care of me after school and during summer, who never hesitated to take me to school events, and who always made me feel loved. I am extremely grateful to Dr. R for helping me feel appreciated, always helping me achieve my greatest academic achievements, and being there for me. I am grateful to Mr. M for helping keep me on track and helping me do my best. I would like to thank Mr. L for encouraging me to do my best and overcome my anxiety whenever I had to do a flute solo in band, helping me step outside of my comfort zone and apply that confidence to other situations as well. Thank you to M. S and Mme. H for encouraging me to keep learning new things and helping me never lose my interest in French and go beyond what I was familiar with, reaching out to new experiences. After all, I must endure the presence of a few caterpillars if I wish to become acquainted with the butterflies.
Forgetful or Bullying?
ADHD Support / by TheCrew4887
Last post
 February 12th
...See more I’ve started to notice that sometimes my things will go missing only to reappear in convenient places. I keep telling myself it's just me being forgetful, but I'm worried there could be more going on. The most recent example was last week when I went to lunch. At my school you’re required to leave your backpacks outside, so I did, my water bottle in the side pocket. When I came back out it was gone. After exactly seven days (weekends included) it showed up at the lost in found. The one I checked constantly all week. Perfect condition, no dents, so as a metal water bottle it couldn’t have fallen without making a dent.  The water bottle thing has happened a few other times but could all be chalked up to me being forgetful or misremembering where I put/if I put them in my bag or not since I do have memory issues. How can I be sure that I'm just being forgetful and misplacing things rather than there being someone messing with me? The only proof I have for someone messing with me is when one time my flute (in the case still) went missing for about five days and was found on the soccer field. I didn’t play soccer or do any sports at the time. 
Christmas Gift Dysphoria (seeking advice and support)
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by TheCrew4887
Last post
 December 29th, 2023
...See more How do you guys handle Christmas and seeing your deadname written on all your gifts? Any tips or advice on how to handle/overcome it emotionally? there’s also the issue on what to do with gifts that cause gender dysphoria (necklaces and jewelry for me) without upsetting the person who gave it to me or causing an argument. What’s the best way to politely decline a gift like that?
Trans vent Poem (free verse??)
Poetry / by TheCrew4887
Last post
 December 18th, 2023
...See more Copied and pasted from LGBTQ+ Forums, my original work. Haven’t wrote free verse in a while (almost half a year) so it’s probably more vent than Poem but whatever. [[Tw for mtf gender dysphoria]] Why couldn’t I be her? Every time I hear those words that are meant to be sweet,  Laced with honey yet make me feel sick to my stomach. And it’s not that I’m unappreciative, no,  I’m simply tired of lying awake at night wondering why I couldn’t be the ‘princess’ I was called as a child. I’m so sick of my body feeling wrong and words feeling like they aren’t aimed towards me. Those words were for her.  Why couldn’t I be her? It’s not that I don’t want to be,  I wish I could feel okay in my own skin, laugh as I’m taught to wear makeup and paint my nails. Why couldn’t I be her? I’m tired of wishing my father would buy me a suit for a school dance and teach me to tie a tie,  buy my mother buys a dress for **her** instead.  I’m tired of the gut-wrenching feeling whenever I look in the mirror and she stares back, or gazing down a little too far and wishing I had a clear view of the floor. I’m tired of not being able to sleep because my body is *wrong* and it’s not *mine*. It’s hers.  (And sometimes I lie awake at night laying on my stomach, imagining that there’s no more weight on my chest.) (But that’s not here nor there.) I’m tired of family reunions, little cousins who look up to *her* for being a *girl* like *them*.  Sometimes I wonder how disappointed they’d be if they knew who I am. That I’m not her. I wish I could be her. I’m sorry I can’t be her. Why couldn’t I just be her?
Ayup my dudes? It’s sad boy hours (here’s a vent/free verse Poem)
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by TheCrew4887
Last post
 December 11th, 2023
...See more Haven’t wrote free verse in a while so it’s probably more vent than Poem but whatever. [[Tw for mtf gender dysphoria]] Why couldn’t I be her? Every time I hear those words that are meant to be sweet,  Laced with honey yet make me feel sick to my stomach. And it’s not that I’m unappreciative, no,  I’m simply tired of lying awake at night wondering why I couldn’t be the ‘princess’ I was called as a child. I’m so sick of my body feeling wrong and words feeling like they aren’t aimed towards me. Those words were for her.  Why couldn’t I be her? It’s not that I don’t want to be,  I wish I could feel okay in my own skin, laugh as I’m taught to wear makeup and paint my nails. Why couldn’t I be her? I’m tired of wishing my father would buy me a suit for a school dance and teach me to tie a tie,  buy my mother buys a dress for **her** instead.  I’m tired of the gut-wrenching feeling whenever I look in the mirror and she stares back, or gazing down a little too far and wishing I had a clear view of the floor. I’m tired of not being able to sleep because my body is *wrong* and it’s not *mine*. It’s hers.  (And sometimes I lie awake at night laying on my stomach, imagining that there’s no more weight on my chest.) (But that’s not here nor there.) I’m tired of family reunions, little cousins who look up to *her* for being a *girl* like *them*.  Sometimes I wonder how disappointed they’d be if they knew who I am. That I’m not her. I wish I could be her. I’m sorry I can’t be her. Why couldn’t I just be her?
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