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...See more My husband and I have been together for a long time and recently I thought he seemed strange. He started keeping his phone with him all the time and when it was sitting next to him it would be face down. I had a strange feeling so a couple of weeks ago I was able to look at his phone and I saw he had a chat with a girl I didn't know. I asked about it and he said it was nothing she messaged him so he responded. It seemed innocent but I still didn't feel like that was it. So I pushed a bit more, only to find out that he was chatting with 3 women. I was blindsided as I thought we had a good relationship. He said he liked some pictures on social media and then the girls messaged him and he was talking with them for a couple of weeks on and off. But he can't remember what the talked about or what they looked like but....convenient amnesia??? I feel this is cheating, am I wrong to think this way?? He has always been flirtatious with women even right in front of me and I would voice my opinion and he would stop for awhile. A couple of years ago an old girl friend found him on social media and they were talking....I thought it was ok only she said she missed him and he didn't dismissed her until I lost my mind and said to stop talking to her and he did. But now this talking w random girls and liking random pictures. I feel like he is choosing other women over me, his wife. Am I over reacting?

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