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Sulk
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Looking for a brutally honest and extremely talkative long term listner
General Support / by Sulk
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 September 9th, 2020
...See more I think I'm a real mixed bag of issues.So I guess this is some forewarning so I don't feel guilty and rejected ;and a listener doesn't feel obligated and overwhelmed. I know a listeners main focus is to help the member with their problem-but a lot of them don't have solutions so I'm not really expecting that. but I also don't want to just be 'listened' to- my conversation skills are beyond bad,If left without instruction I won't vent and feel better about my problem ill ramble to fill the silence about literally anything other than my problem like please stop me or talk to me im on here because I'm lonely (It also might be annoying that I make jokes about everything,idk dude coping mechanisms) i overthink everything , and doubt myself a lot- I don't really want someone to be super nice in these moments like advice and opinions are beyond welcome, even if I can't use it i want someone to be honest with me, especially about boundaries ,because to an extent I'm clearly looking for something of a friend And taking advantage of someone's kindness is a fear opening up is a slowish process on a lot of days so just talking till I get there is helpful,havin a rapport makes me less self conscious in summary : i have poor communication/conversation skills,so if you're talkative and bluntly honest,patient that'd help (humours a big plus) (i want to be better at that though) Main issues I have are family & relationships,handling responsibility/feeling overwhelmed , motivation for the future/getting unstuck and self esteem Er read my bio for even more info - and I hope to hear from you soon 🌻 [https://images.app.goo.gl/6NTAFQbkTBXJjPuL6]
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