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SteinsGate1
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PathStep 13 Compassion hearts40 Forum posts50 Forum upvotes29 Current upvotes29 Age GroupAdult Last activeJune, 2021 Member sinceMarch 8, 2021
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Besides dealing with my own problems, I'm glad to help others with theirs 🌸
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Collection of relationship advice
Relationship Stress / by SteinsGate1
Last post
 June 3rd, 2021
...See more Please reply if you have any relationship advice 🌸 -Give each other privacy and space. My partner doesn't need to watch me everytime I change. The relationship tend to get boring if you know everything about your partner. -Once every week is either quality time day or date night. It's important to spend time with each other, sometimes we're too busy and forget to make time for our loved ones. -Remember small things your partner mentioned, like that one snack he likes or that flower she liked. Just buy it and surprise him/her with it. -Randomly hug or kiss your partner, it's a very nice gesture when your partner is stressed, maybe from work and needs a small reminder that you are there and that your partner is being loved. -Talk about how you feel and tell them when there's something you feel uncomfortable with. If you're feeling sad or angry about something your partner did, tell him/her. Find a compromise. -Work out. Do something for your body and work out. It's clear that your partner loves you the way you are but it never hurt anyone if you work out once a while. Not only your partner will be happy, you'll feel better about yourself as well. -Give him/her compliments. If they cooked something nice or just had a new haircut, compliment them. -Be your partners biggest fan, try to be supportive, if he/she got any problems think how you can help, sometimes they just need a shoulder to cry on or a person who listens to their complaints.
What I've gone through but never talked about
Relationship Stress / by SteinsGate1
Last post
 May 26th, 2021
...See more I can't really talk to anyone about my issues or what happened in the last few months. After my ex cheated on me I started having a lot of issues with myself. I started hating myself so much, I cried until I just couldn't. I trusted him with my life and after years he just threw us away, it happened so fast, I stopped believing that I could ever love like I did with him. I also realised that I couldn't feel the same way ever again. I started working on myself a lot. Dated some guys and got told how pretty and how perfect I am, it didn't help, for the one I loved I wasn't enough. I also realised that a lot of people who seem perfect, actually have gone through a lot. I felt so lost and empty always looking in the mirror just thinking to myself that I'm not enough, that I never was and never will. I just dated so many guys hooked up just to feel again, just to stop having feelings for my ex. I still feel bad, people actually started having feelings for me, but after my relationship all I could think of is how I can spend my time with new people so that I could stop thinking about my ex. My love for someone was never this strong. I'm doing better now, my ex is now trying to win me back, besides all the suffering I've gone through, I'm doing better. But I just wanted to tell someone that I survived, that he hurt me this much and I was still able to stand up and try working on myself. That I'm still here after all this and that I can be proud of myself. Thank you for reading, please share your thoughts
how are you behaving?
Relationship Stress / by SteinsGate1
Last post
 May 11th, 2021
...See more I have issues with my boyfriend going outside with his friends to get wasted. He cheated on me once, so I can't really trust him. I often come with him, because I'm friends with his friends as well. But I live a little bit far from the city, so I can't always be there. I feel pissed everytime he's getting drunk without me. I'm a revengeful person, so I feel like I start a competition. He is partying with our friends? Fine I'll get wasted with some "friends" where I live. I don't know how other couples are handling this. I just get really pissed.
I lost myself
Eating Disorder Support / by SteinsGate1
Last post
 May 4th, 2021
...See more I have big issues with my body, it started because my ex cheated on me, telling me that I was too skinny, telling all our friends how small breasts are, how perfect the other one was. My whole life I was fine with how my body looked like, I was skinny, but I loved myself. Now I have issues with wanting to gain weight my mindset changed. I try to gain weight, forcing myself to eat as much as possible without even having appetite. My motivation is always thinking about that traumatic moment, knowing that I'm too skinny, that others are perfect. Sometimes I feel like crying idk. It sucks having those issues. I just want to love myself again. But the things he said, the fact that all my friends will look at me knowing that I'm too skinny. I gained weight, but I'm very strict with myself, I would workout until my body hurts. I took pictures of my body to stay realistic and see my progress. I never had issues like that with my body.
Seems very toxic
Family & Caregivers / by SteinsGate1
Last post
 April 30th, 2021
...See more I love my family but they seem very toxic to me. I was talking to my mom and she was only comparing me with my cousins making me feel bad and my older brother has anger issues. My whole family tend to fight about small things, last time they had a discussion about how to prepare brokkoli and it ended with my dad being upset and my brother leaving, slamming the door aggressively. I don't know, they are a mess. And I realise how I myself have anger issues sometimes and get frustrated by the smallest things, but then I always think about my family and stop, because I don't want to be like them. But I also can't change how they are, which makes me kinda sad, because everyone is constantly fighting. And being totally fake infront of our relatives.
I know that I'm toxic
Relationship Stress / by SteinsGate1
Last post
 March 25th, 2021
...See more I know that I'm toxic. My ex is hanging out with a girl that he finds perfect and had a crush on once. I make him feel bad for it, because I cannot handle them together. She's in a relationship and I can absolutely not trust my ex, he cheated on me once. Everytime I feel this way, I just want him to feel the way I do. He's telling me I'm important and everything, but obviously not important enough to not hang out with her. I just....I don't want to think, I don't want to be sober anymore.
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