Bio
I'm here at 7 Cups because I needed a place to unload my brain with what I'm dealing with and the frustrations in this 40+ year marriage, and maybe connect with others who are dealing with the same. I'm often discouraged and deal with anxiety and depression because I'm married to someone who is passive aggressive and unresponsive most of the time with my own needs as a husband. I don't understand why someone doesn't want to contribute and work at making a marriage an oasis of comfort while living in a world of chaos and heartache. I've tried to do my part over the years, but there's hardly been very many times when it was reciprocated. Hard to carry on a relationship with a spouse when it's mostly one side doing most or nearly all of the work to keep it alive.
Generally, I'm a very easy person to get along with. I'm not confrontational or rude to anyone unless they get that way with me, then I get defensive. I do respond to anyone who wishes to chat or wants a conversation with me. Friendships are welcome to anyone who needs a friend to chat with. I'm caring and sensitive to other's needs and problems and would offer any advice and help if asked.
Don't let my profile image scare you. I choose that because it has some meaning as it relates to my real name... 😊
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