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Sna99
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PathStep 15 Compassion hearts33 Forum posts13 Forum upvotes11 Current upvotes11 Age GroupAdult Last activeMay, 2020 Member sinceDecember 20, 2017
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Relationship Stress / by Sna99
Last post
 October 24th, 2018
...See more Hey there I am 19 years old and my name is Su. I am female.I think 7cups doesn't allow sharing personal information so not gonna say where I am from. I am currently dealing severe depression because of the break up.I am on 7cups because I don't have any friends I can talk to and I thought talking about it with someone could make me feel better. Nice to meet you all 😊
I don't know what to do about my ex
Relationship Stress / by Sna99
Last post
 October 20th, 2018
...See more It's going to be a little bit long so I am really sorry if it's annoying. With me ex fiance we were together for 1.5 years and it was our both first experience about a relationship.When we first met it was a long distance for 2-3 months (We live in same country but diffirent cities and our cities are not that far away) We both had lots of hardships during our relationship.He had proplems with his mom as she was not okay with our relationship.I also had problems with my family as they didn't want me to drop univeristy to live with him. In our relationship he was more like dad or brother to me than a boyfriend.I always made him take my responsiblities.I have social phobia and anixety also so it was really hard for me to socialise so I don't have any friends.I was often feeling really anixious about small things and mistread him (shouting,calling bad names,being too controlling)He wanted me to see a threapist but I always refused. During our last months of relationship his behaviour to me was diffirent.He was often being cold and ignoring me.When he said he wanted speace it made me really panic.I didn't want to lose him.I said I want to break up a few times but I was never serious it was just threat. In an argument I said something bad about his mom (swear word) which caused him to not talk to me for 2 weeks. When I try to contact him he said he wanted to break up as our relationship was tiring and he doesn't have feelings for me anymore.I begged him not to break up and said suicidal stuff but even in that case he didn't care.Even we were arguing it was really a sudden change. I decided to visit him as he doesn't reply my text and also not sending my stuff back.I was planning to stay calm but couldn't and I made things even worse. He said he will keep talking to me and will visit me just for handle the situation but now again he never reply my text.His chracter also changed a lot now.Before he liked staying home better but now he is always outside and says he never wants a relationship again.I don't understand how someone change change so suddenly. I don't know what should I do and how can I keep my contact with him.Even if it's just in friendly way.Rather then just moving on and let go what can I do ?
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